Great Poly Relationships: Staying Cool When Tensions Are High

Cheers Sexy People! It’s great to connect with you again here. I have had a busy, exciting and fun-filled few weeks! As usual, I have had my share of ups and downs recently. My boyfriend and I were gearing up for our annual Rocky Horror Picture Show inspired rock gig that we do every year with…

Can Mono / Poly Relationships Work Without Pain?

Cheers Sexy Peeps! A comment just came in from a recent popular blog post of mine Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married? The comment is filled with pain and the commenter is seeking answers. I was about to write a reply in the comment section, but realized that the best way to serve this hurting individual…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a pole dancing grandmother in her 50s

This is ninth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This ninth interview is with a close female friend…

Confession: Sometimes I Suck at Compersion

Cheers Sexy People! I have a confession to make. Sometimes I suck at compersion… even though I write this polyamorous blog. Well, hey I partly write this blog to work out my angst or occasional problems with an audience for both feedback, but also in an effort to hopefully help others at the same time…

Featured Again on “Threesomes and Variations”

I am honored that last week’s blog post, Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values was recently highlighted again as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated more great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for…