Acceptance of Polyamory Today: OKCupid Dating Adventures

Cheers Sexy People! The time has finally come… after performing post-breakup soul searching, doing MORE research on why people cheat, enjoying some quality time with my amazing husband as well as lots of ME time to make sure my self-esteem is intact, I have ventured back out into the dating world. Not just any dating…

Monogamy Under the Microscope: CNN, Time, and the Ashley Madison Hack

Hello Polyworld! I’m JJ, Kitty’s husband. I’m oft-mentioned but rarely seen in the wild, kind of like Big Foot, or the Incredible Hulk (though sadly without all the bulgy muscles. On the other hand, I don’t have the green complexion either, so let’s call it a wash.)   Up to now I’ve mostly hung out…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a female musician in a triad

This is twelfth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This twelfth interview is with a female musician in her mid-30s…

It’s My Party and She’ll Cry If She Wants To (“Coming Out Story”)

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I regaled you with stories of my worst coming out ever. Upon being “out”d” at a party that I was throwing for my husband, my newer friend felt very out of sorts and proceeded to get rather upset and fled the party! It was a bit of a clusterfuck. I…

Can Love Truly Conquer All? (Forgive, But Don’t Forget)

Cheers Sexy People! This past weekend, I attended what for me was a transformational event. I attended my first Landmark Forum. I don’t know how many of our awesome peeps in our community have checked this “dive into the deep end of the pool” seminar out (and I’d love to hear from you to get your…

Do My Partners Have Partners? + BONUS: Myths and Facts

Cheers Sexy People! Recently, a dear friend of mine whom I met through this blog, asked me if my partners have partners themselves. I have written about my partners’ partners (otherwise known as “metamours” in the poly community) in many posts over the last two years. However, since an avid reader of my blog was…