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The Countdown is ON like Donkey Kong: FREE Book Offer: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”

Cheers Sexy People! The countdown is on! The Kindle version of my first book: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship” is available now for only 99 cents for a limited time only. I wrote this book to help YOU as much as possible, based on my own research,…

jealousy in relationships

FREE Book Offer + Bonuses Offer: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”

Cheers Sexy People! So there I was, mashing graham crackers with a hammer on the kitchen floor of my apartment in my 20s. I was diligently following the recipe, but I was extremely nervous as I put the Spicy Pumpkin Cheesecake in the oven. You see I had never baked a cheesecake before and here I was…

Poly Interview: Non-monogamy from a 30 yo male in Portland, Oregon

This is fourteenth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This fourteenth interview is with 30 year old Steven…

Confession: Sometimes I Suck at Compersion

Cheers Sexy People! I have a confession to make. Sometimes I suck at compersion… even though I write this polyamorous blog. Well, hey I partly write this blog to work out my angst or occasional problems with an audience for both feedback, but also in an effort to hopefully help others at the same time…

When Poly Rubber Hits the Bumpy Road (or Three Is A Magic Number)

Cheers Sexy People! Happy New Year, peeps! I hope you all had a love and laughter filled holiday, complete with sexy time and some adventures too. I know I did! I have lots to tell! It’s been quite a ride. Let me catch you up on my polyamorous life, filled with exciting twists and turns……

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a male artist and educator in Chicago

This is the fifth in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This fifth interview is of…

Jealousy, Polyamory and What That Has To Do with a Dead Fish?

Cheers Sexy People, Last week, we discovered one of our beautiful koi fish belly up in our pond. My husband and I were immediately saddened and upset trying to determine what killed the lovely creature that we have been tasked with taking care of ever since we inherited our koi pond (it came with the…

The Practice of Jealousy Management

Cheers Sexy People! Let’s face it: It’s impossible to talk about polyamory / ethical non-monogamy without the topic of jealousy coming up. It’s one of the first questions I got asked by my friends when I first “came out” to them. “But don’t you get jealous?” Why yes, yes I do. Some days it might…