What Those in Healthy, Happy Open Relationships Know That You Don't
Cheers Sexy People! I am a proud, polyamorous woman, but I have several times been asked: Why be married if you are in several relationships, possible acting as a free agent anyway? What’s the point of the marriage? Why bother? The first time I was asked this, I admit I bristled and wanted to get…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I have had another week full of ups and downs. The earlier part of the week, I was feeling those nasty feelings of exclusion again, mainly at my job that I am leaving, feeling the clutch of fear around my neck as I let doubt creep in about if I am doing…
DetailsI thought this was just a wonderful, well-written blog post from a poly blogger that I very much respect. You go, girl!
Cheers Sexy People! Well, it’s been a helluva week! Lots of ups and downs and revelations. I’ve been thinking alot lately about emotion management and release, being authentic, and how love truly makes the world go round. Have you ever had moments where you feel like you are being replaced? It brings up feelings of…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I have a confession to make. Sometimes I suck at compersion… even though I write this polyamorous blog. Well, hey I partly write this blog to work out my angst or occasional problems with an audience for both feedback, but also in an effort to hopefully help others at the same time…
DetailsCheers Sexy People, I have had quite the busy work, personal and poly life lately, my dear friends. There is much upheaval, excitement, momentum and sweet moments. For a peek into my poly as well as extended life, here are some highlights: My live-in boyfriend and I threw my husband a birthday party at our…
DetailsThis is eighth in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This eighth interview is of a…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I’m having one of those introspective days… you know, the kind where you wonder if you have any affect on anything that happens in your life at all? Are we all just running around thinking that we have control over our lives but we really have none? Or are we really steering…
DetailsI am honored that last week’s blog post, Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values was recently highlighted again as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated more great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Last week, I contemplated how rules, boundaries and negotiations work in polyamorous relationships, and pondered how we find common ground and figure out how to better understand each other while still honoring our own needs and desires at the same time. Once again, this can be challenging in a monogamous relationship, but…
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