Conscious Connecting
I thought this was just so beautiful, I had to share it. Wonderful, smart introspective sentiments here…
Poly Anniversaries, Leather and Irony
Cheers Sexy People! Once again, I have many updates for you, and I thank you whole-heartedly for your patience while I caught up with my interesting, sometimes manic life that I have created for myself. As I write this, I am driving back home from Philadelphia from band rehearsal for my upcoming Halloween rock gig…
DetailsWhy NOT “Come Out”? and An Announcement!
Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote a post where I mentioned that I went to my first gay wedding for a close friend of mine, yet I have not “come out” to him yet as polyamorous. I also expressed some sadness that polyamory is not more accepted in today’s society. Thus I feel that…
Details7 Bottoms, 1 Gay Wedding and 1 Poly Anniversary
Cheers Sexy People! I have MUCH to tell you! It has been an exciting, busy and fun-filled couple of weeks. I am writing you from Provincetown, MA where I attended and participated in my first gay wedding. And wow, what a magical, fun and thought-provoking weekend it was. The wedding was for a friend of…
DetailsCan Mono / Poly Relationships Work Without Pain?
Cheers Sexy Peeps! A comment just came in from a recent popular blog post of mine Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married? The comment is filled with pain and the commenter is seeking answers. I was about to write a reply in the comment section, but realized that the best way to serve this hurting individual…
DetailsKeep Yo Hands To Yo’Self!
Cheers Sexy People! I’ve missed you! Thanks for your patience. Today is day three of my newfound freedom being my own boss, being more and more authentic every single day, taking this life and ROCKING it! I love my life and I love writing to all of you! Writing this blog makes me happy, and…
DetailsPoly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a pole dancing grandmother in her 50s
This is ninth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This ninth interview is with a close female friend…
DetailsWhy Do Polyamorous People Get Married?
Cheers Sexy People! I am a proud, polyamorous woman, but I have several times been asked: Why be married if you are in several relationships, possible acting as a free agent anyway? What’s the point of the marriage? Why bother? The first time I was asked this, I admit I bristled and wanted to get…
DetailsLetting Go of the Past, Embracing the Future
Cheers Sexy People! I have had another week full of ups and downs. The earlier part of the week, I was feeling those nasty feelings of exclusion again, mainly at my job that I am leaving, feeling the clutch of fear around my neck as I let doubt creep in about if I am doing…
DetailsGratitude and Growth
I thought this was just a wonderful, well-written blog post from a poly blogger that I very much respect. You go, girl!