What Those in Healthy, Happy Open Relationships Know That You Don't
Cheers Sexy Readers! I have made a new friend through this blog, and we have exchanged several emails about her situation and her feelings about her partner seeking a third to join them. She asked me a question recently that I would like to answer to the best of my ability here, but I would…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Last week, I regaled you with stories of my worst coming out ever. Upon being “out”d” at a party that I was throwing for my husband, my newer friend felt very out of sorts and proceeded to get rather upset and fled the party! It was a bit of a clusterfuck. I…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I have missed you and am happy to be sharing with you again here. Unfortunately, what I have to share starts with telling you that I just had the worst “coming out” experience of my life. It is frustrating that even with all of my research, pondering, preparation and work that I do to try…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I am happily writing you from London where the hubs and I are traveling, having a 1.5 week leisurely trip (OK, some business too, but not much) visiting friends and family. We are having a splendidly AWESOME time. We just landed here last night from Edinburgh, Scotland where we spent five days.…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! As we embark on this holiday weekend, I thought I would ponder over a question that came in from one of my readers, and provide any insights that I can share on the question at hand. Here is his question: “I consider myself a polyamorist, however, how am I to know if…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! My last post about forgiveness and moving forward after infidelity got some lively conversations going, both here in the comments section and in Facebook forums as well. I received the following comment from a Facebook friend: You talk a lot about trust – the question is, trust that your partner will do what? Do what s/he wants…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I felt a massive weight had been lifted off of my shoulders after I recently truly forgave my boyfriend for his indiscretions that I talked about in this post. We had a really powerful conversation – not only about forgiveness, but ways in which I wanted to take ownership of being a great, attentive…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! This past weekend, I attended what for me was a transformational event. I attended my first Landmark Forum. I don’t know how many of our awesome peeps in our community have checked this “dive into the deep end of the pool” seminar out (and I’d love to hear from you to get your…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Soooo I’m ready to talk about something here on my ethical non-monogamy blog. As you may have guessed from recent posts… I got cheated on. Yes, that’s right – after I’ve been writing this blog for over two years now, digging deeper into my commitment to polyamory, trust, integrity, honesty, transparency, blah,…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I just got back from a raucously fun weekend in Las Vegas with some good friends, both polyamorous and monogamous incidentally. It was Rockabilly Weekend at the Orleans Casino for the 18th Viva Las Vegas! What a blast! If any of my readers enjoy that type of music, I will tell you…
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