I am honored that last week’s blog post, Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values was recently highlighted again as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated more great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Last week, I contemplated how rules, boundaries and negotiations work in polyamorous relationships, and pondered how we find common ground and figure out how to better understand each other while still honoring our own needs and desires at the same time. Once again, this can be challenging in a monogamous relationship, but…
DetailsI am honored that last week’s blog post, Polyamory Without Rules = Chaos? was recently highlighted as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated some great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for that matter).…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I have been thinking a lot lately about rules, boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships. A poly friend of mine once said to me, to him freedom feels more loving than rules. And to a certain extent, I agree with him. But if there are no rules at all, is that just…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I have been waiting for the right moment to share what I have learned about the concept and teachings of Nonviolent Communication as described by Marshall Rosenberg. Given how my last two weeks have been, now is the time, my dear friends. This is really powerful stuff, and it’s another bit of…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Even though I write this blog doling out any insights I find, and do oodles of research on polyamory / ethical non-monogamy, communication, relationships, etc, sometimes I fuck up anyway. I view trying to live an ethically non-monogamous life, juggling more than one relationship, and doing my best to live a purposeful,…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Do you think that you could handle someone that you are romantically involved with (lover, partner, spouse) going out on an overnite date with his ex-girlfriend? How about if the date was an all weekend excursion or vacation, with adorable pictures of them together showing up on Facebook? Would you want to…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Ahhh relationship breakups… they can be truly horrible, sad and even debilitating at times – yes even when we are involved in having multiple relationships at once as us polyamorous folk are wont to do. Last week marks a year since my former metamour broke up with my boyfriend. The moment I…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I have been thinking quite a bit lately about courage, finding our true selves, being authentic, facing challenges, and it is all very relevant to me in the decision / inclination to be polyamorous or not. Deciding to live an ethically non-monogamous life on purpose and out loud takes a load of…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Have you ever been at a key place in your life where you were at a crossroads? Where you needed to make a Big Decision? Which path do you choose, how do you decide and who do you turn to? This blog post is about handling adversity in our lives, what having…
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