Cheers Sexy People! This post is second in a series of two posts answering a reader’s question below. The first time I answered it, the response was from three female poly bloggers, including yours truly. (Click here to see the original blog post). So I wanted to give it another go but this time, from…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! So, you think you might be polyamorous, and this alternative lifestyle may suit you, but where do you find these elusive potential “poly” mates, considering that not everyone is “out of the closet” or wearing their “freak” flag on a daily basis? In addition, consider that the polyamorous / ethically non-monogamous community…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Ahhhhhhh, the holidays… a time for running around like a completely insane person all while trying not to hit squirrels as they cross the street, having and making lists (presents, groceries, people to NOT see over the holidays, parties to attend, parties to avoid, etc), and visiting… FAMILY. I’ve been thinking alot…
DetailsThis is the sixth in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This sixth interview is of…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I want to dedicate this blog post to a question that I received from one of my readers in Australia. Here is her question to me: Q: Do you feel as though your “status” as a married person gives you a greater stability from which to explore polyamory? I am single, and…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Awhile back, an online acquaintance asked me: I’m not sure if polyamory is for me or not…. how can I determine that? This post serves to help answer that question, readers. Here goes: I like to start from my own experience, and then expand from there. I was a late bloomer for…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! So, let’s talk about sex, my poly and poly-curious peeps. I’ve noticed that sometimes people assume that if you identify as polyamorous, many assume that also means that you are promiscuous. CAN that be possible? Well, sure, but it is not always the case. There are as many ways to “do” polyamory…
DetailsCheers Sexy People, “Don’t Dream It, Be It” is a quote I personally love from one of my favorite cult classic movies, The Rocky Horror Picture Show. I was an impressionable 16 years old the first time that I saw it at the Theatre of the Living Arts (TLA) movie theatre on South Street in…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! How do we stay true to ourselves while staying true to our loved ones? How HONEST about who we are do we want to be, even to ourselves? When do we start to build resentment for hiding our true nature, stuffing our feelings down or denying ourselves pleasure? How often do we…
DetailsCheers Sexy People, Three important and epic things happened since we last spoke, readers – two directly related to the poly world, one related to decreasing stigmas about “taboo” topics that typical, everyday mainstream society would prefer not to talk about: My husband and I attended the infertility documentary in NYC to help lessen the…
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