Poly Family Reunion (of sorts) In The Big Apple

Cheers Sexy People! Sometimes friendship, hope and camaraderie comes from the most unlikely and potentially faraway places. This past weekend was for me a wonderful celebration of such things. I had the opportunity to meet a close, online polyamorous-practicing friend of mine when our paths were able to cross in New York City. How divine!…

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We Said “I Love You” – Now What?

Cheers Sexy People, Recently, a reader whom I’ve spoken to in the past asked for some advice. I thought I would share her situation here, my response, and put it out here on my blog in case anyone else has any wise words of advice from the polyamory trenches. Situation: She (whom I’ll refer to…

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Great Poly Relationships: Staying Cool When Tensions Are High

Cheers Sexy People! It’s great to connect with you again here. I have had a busy, exciting and fun-filled few weeks! As usual, I have had my share of ups and downs recently. My boyfriend and I were gearing up for our annual Rocky Horror Picture Show inspired rock gig that we do every year with…

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How I Became Polyamorous and Other Adventures

Cheers Sexy People! I am elated and honored that I was recently asked to write a guest blog post for my new, dear friend, Louisa Leontides who writes the inspiring, informative, and gutsy Postmodern Woman blog. If this is not on your blog reading list yet, consider adding it to your queue. Louisa has proven…

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Why NOT “Come Out”? and An Announcement!

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote a post where I mentioned that I went to my first gay wedding for a close friend of mine, yet I have not “come out” to him yet as polyamorous. I also expressed some sadness that polyamory is not more accepted in today’s society. Thus I feel that…

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7 Bottoms, 1 Gay Wedding and 1 Poly Anniversary

Cheers Sexy People! I have MUCH to tell you! It has been an exciting, busy and fun-filled couple of weeks. I am writing you from Provincetown, MA where I attended and participated in my first gay wedding. And wow, what a magical, fun and thought-provoking weekend it was. The wedding was for a friend of…

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Can Mono / Poly Relationships Work Without Pain?

Cheers Sexy Peeps! A comment just came in from a recent popular blog post of mine Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married? The comment is filled with pain and the commenter is seeking answers. I was about to write a reply in the comment section, but realized that the best way to serve this hurting individual…

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Keep Yo Hands To Yo’Self!

Cheers Sexy People! I’ve missed you! Thanks for your patience. Today is day three of my newfound freedom being my own boss, being more and more authentic every single day, taking this life and ROCKING it! I love my life and I love writing to all of you! Writing this blog makes me happy, and…

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