I Forgave Him – But Now What? (Damage Control After Infidelity)

Cheers Sexy People! I felt a massive weight had been lifted off of my shoulders after I recently truly forgave my boyfriend for his indiscretions that I talked about in this post. We had a really powerful conversation – not only about forgiveness, but ways in which I wanted to take ownership of being a great, attentive…

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Can Love Truly Conquer All? (Forgive, But Don’t Forget)

Cheers Sexy People! This past weekend, I attended what for me was a transformational event. I attended my first Landmark Forum. I don’t know how many of our awesome peeps in our community have checked this “dive into the deep end of the pool” seminar out (and I’d love to hear from you to get your…

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Broken Trust – Can You Survive An Affair?

Cheers Sexy People! Soooo I’m ready to talk about something here on my ethical non-monogamy blog. As you may have guessed from recent posts… I got cheated on. Yes, that’s right – after I’ve been writing this blog for over two years now, digging deeper into my commitment to polyamory, trust, integrity, honesty, transparency, blah,…

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Do My Partners Have Partners? + BONUS: Myths and Facts

Cheers Sexy People! Recently, a dear friend of mine whom I met through this blog, asked me if my partners have partners themselves. I have written about my partners’ partners (otherwise known as “metamours” in the poly community) in many posts over the last two years. However, since an avid reader of my blog was…

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Adventures At My First Poly Conference

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you from the “other side” of giving my first presentation at my first polyamorous conference. What a ride that was! WOW! SOOO glad that I did it! There were moments full of fear where I thought, “What am I, crazy? Who gives me the right to speak publicly about…

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