What Those in Healthy, Happy Open Relationships Know That You Don't
Cheers Sexy People! Recently a member of our awesome Loving Without Boundaries community shared with me this incredible TedTalk by Esther Perel – a relationship therapist – that answers very eloquently the question “Why do happy people cheat?” Wow. It is incredible. Totally worth the 21 minutes that it requires to watch it in full. I will…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! It is with great excitement that I share that I will be at this year’s Beyond the Love conference November 13–15 in Columbus, Ohio. I have been granted a “press pass” to come enjoy the event, take part in the activities, and then report on the experience afterwards here at Loving Without…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! The latest podcast episode is live – an interview with Rebecca Ritter, close friend of Kitty Chambliss who introduced Kitty to the book “The Ethical Slut.” That magnificent book sent this Kitty down the trajectory of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory with joy in her heart and loving sensuality in her soul! Thank you,…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! The time has finally come… after performing post-breakup soul searching, doing MORE research on why people cheat, enjoying some quality time with my amazing husband as well as lots of ME time to make sure my self-esteem is intact, I have ventured back out into the dating world. Not just any dating…
DetailsHello Polyworld! I’m JJ, Kitty’s husband. I’m oft-mentioned but rarely seen in the wild, kind of like Big Foot, or the Incredible Hulk (though sadly without all the bulgy muscles. On the other hand, I don’t have the green complexion either, so let’s call it a wash.) Up to now I’ve mostly hung out…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote about how I was devastated and deeply saddened by losing a dear friend, colleague and mentor in a tragic accident while he was about to reach the summit of the tallest mountain in Africa – an achievement he always wanted. It just completely broke my heart to see this incredible…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here with my friend Louisa Leontiades, author of The “Husband Swap: A True Story of Unconventional Love” and “Lessons in Love and Life to my Younger Self (a companion guide to The Husband Swap)”. She’s also a contributor to Huffington Post, Salon, Nerve, Jezebel and the Guardian. Louisa contacted me…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! I am writing you with a heavy heart today after learning about a tragic loss yesterday that I am deeply deeply saddened by. A good friend of mine, a friend that also became a colleague of mine as well as a supporter of my endeavors here at Loving Without Boundaries died suddenly in a natural…
DetailsCheers Sexy People, It has been about six weeks since the big breakup. And surprisingly, even to myself, I am doing quite well. Don’t get me wrong – any big loss still hurts big-time. And losing an almost five-year relationship and someone that lived in and shared your home is a big shift in anyone’s reality. But…
DetailsCheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here with a new friend of mine, Saul from the website and blog, Saul of Hearts. When I started my polyamorous journey, I did quite a bit of research and tried to find other like-minded people. It was during this time that I found Saul’s website which spoke…
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