Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community!
I am deeply honored and excited to share my latest podcast interview with Robert Dalbol, an inspirational client success story. Rob and his partner reached out for help back in May of 2023. I really felt for them as they shared with me some of what they were struggling with that caused them to raise their hand and ask for assistance — an act that takes courage, and I do not take that lightly. Once we had an honest and authentic conversation on that first call, and they said “yes” to going on a growth and transformational journey for the higher and greater good (of them as individuals as well as for their relationship), we got to work, giving them both the tools and strategies to help succeed in any healthy relationship, with a lens to authentic living, self-empowerment, and solid boundary setting. In the end, Rob got the clarity and the skillset that he needed to make decisions for his own well-being as well as his family – and I’m so happy for him. Rob, it has been such an honor to serve you, support you, and watch you grow, thrive, and live your best life! Thank you for sharing your story with others via this beautiful and honest conversation. Sending you love and light.
Here is his Bio:
Rob Dalbol was married for 10 yrs in a typical relationship before they decided to open their marriage. Ultimately, the inability to communicate effectively and differences in their values led them to separate. The tools in Kitty’s coaching Program have taught Rob that he is capable of providing more in his future relationships and show up as a more confident and emotionally mature man without letting fear or trauma come between him and his happiness.
Some topics we discuss in this highly interesting, informative, and entertaining interview:
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Struggling with control issues stemming from fear of change and developed codependency.
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Losing your identity in relationships.
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Practicing gratitude and developing self-care routines.
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Poor boundary-setting patterns that can cause relationship dysfunction.
- Shifting from a victim mentality to seeing challenges as growth opportunities.
- How to manage emotions and set healthy boundaries despite fear.
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Trying couples therapy with limited success.
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you, Robert, for being so wonderfully generous with your time, and for sharing your work and life with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, interesting, and so fun!
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 268 with Robert Dalbol. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
ANNOUNCEMENT — GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on these awesome podcasts:
Open Window Institute Podcast with Jesse Dean, released February 10, 2025, where we discuss struggling with debilitating stress and anxiety on my journey to emotional freedom fulfilling my mission.
The Sensitivity Doctor Podcast by Dr. Amelia Kelley, Episode 109 where we discuss healing codependency.
Indie Author Weekly Podcast, Episode 112 in which I talk about writing my book, “Jealousy Survival Guide.”
Normalizing Non-Monogamy Podcast, Episode 179 as I share my story with them.
Poly Weekly Podcast, Episode 540 in which I talk about my insights on jealousy and my book, “Jealousy Survival Guide.”
Multiamory Podcast by Dedeker Winston, Episode 140 where I talk about the lessons I’ve learned as a polyamorous person who struggles with jealousy.
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Where are you on your non-traditional relationship journey? Are you just starting out, feeling alone and confused? Unsure how to navigate this new world?
On Wednesday, May 21st at 10:30am ET, I am hosting a FREE Live Masterclass called: “The 5-Step Formula My Clients Use to Create Healthy, Loving, Open Relationships (even if nothing has worked before)” in our Private LWB Facebook group.
This Masterclass will show you how to live your most authentic life free from shame & guilt with tools to liberate you from challenging emotions like jealousy once and for all. And, please know that it is USUAL for participants to VERY quickly experience relief and BIG shifts during these events… So Join the Facebook group and then reserve your seat for this life-changing event!
LWB Local Washington DC Metro Area Meetup
– If you’re local or happen to be visiting the DC metro area, come join us for a fun and engaging social gathering at 6:45 pm ET on Wednesday, September 10, 2025, at Murphy’s Grand Irish Pub (713 King Street, Alexandria, VA 22314).
Join our Meetup Group to RSVP for the event!
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See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty Chambliss, Master Certified Coach (MCC), CPC, TIC
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