Here is a married couple, Gordon and Jenn, that I worked with a few months back.
They had been married for over 20 years, after several previous marriages that ended painfully due to chronic cheating.
When they opened up their marriage to explore ethical non-monogamy, insecurities, and jealousy emerged that Gordon did not know how to handle.
He struggled deeply with overcoming self-doubt and fear of losing Jenn.
The challenges made him feel like he was seeing a different person in Jenn, and it frightened him.
He said: “I had this struggle and it was fear-based. It was coming from inside, and I felt like ‘I don’t like this feeling, and I don’t know what to do with it.’
I don’t know how to get rid of it. I just wanted it to go away.
So learning about this ethically, non-monogamous lifestyle and the autonomy of each individual, I had to really figure some things out. I went to counseling, I went to hypnotherapy, I went to things and I just struggled.”
That’s when they decided to reach out and book a call with me, seeking a sex-positive counselor.
We dove right in and got to work…
We implemented tools to improve communication and address the root causes of jealousy. And Gordon really rose to the occasion…
Fast forward just a couple of months later and the difference is staggering!
Now Gordon has overcome his self-doubt and feels secure.
Gordon and Jenn have created a loving, open marriage and family.
Here is what Jenn had to say… I was deeply moved when I read it for the first time…
“This isn’t just about living outside the boundaries of heteronormative relationships. This is about how to live YOUR best life. The skills we’ve learned, I use in every relationship I have, not just with my husband. I am so grateful for all we have achieved. Each module, each call, each time we practice what we’ve learned, is SO VALUABLE!
The growth we’ve both made during this has allowed us to start having fun and meaningful encounters with like-minded people. The most beautiful part of it is that now, each time we have an encounter with someone in the non-monogamy setting (even when it’s over-the-top awesome), we realize how much we are grateful and just DELIGHTED to be enjoying life with each other. We really are the yin to each other’s yang.
Take the chance. Do the work. You won’t regret it.”
They are incredible role models of what a modern marriage can look like.
All this because they took action to create the change they needed.
Now, action is great, but without a plan, that’s a BIG no-no…You wouldn’t build a house without a blueprint, right?
Well, that’s what I’m here to do… give you the blueprint you need to create transformation in your marriage or relationships.
I’ve opened up my calendar to help couples and singles overcome jealousy and open their hearts joyfully.
The best part is this call is totally free!
What’s the catch? I do these calls to reward those ready for change and to explore working together long-term.
If we feel it’s a great fit – awesome! If not, that’s ok too.
The plan we craft will be lightyears ahead of anything else out there, nothing short of life-changing…
Spots fill up fast, so book your free call here:
https://lovingwithoutboundaries.com/apply
Looking forward to helping you transform your relationships!
Speak soon,
Kitty
