I’m going to be brutally honest for a second.
Right now, there are millions of people trying to achieve fulfilling and joyful open relationships that feel happy, safe, and secure with MORE than ONE person – without drama, tension, fear, insecurity, and fights.
— They’re reading tons of articles and a few books typically without taking real action…
— They’re buying inexpensive online courses or downloading motivational phone apps…
— They’re even going to couples counseling to vent while sharing their frustrations while often blaming their partner(s) for their feelings…
And despite all of that, most of them aren’t even close to a satisfying, multiple-partners love life…much less deeply fulfilling, passion-filled, yummy open relationships others would be envious of (all WITHOUT endless fights and debilitating negative feelings).
If you’ve been following me for a while, then you know that the strategies I mentioned above – random online research, dabbling with “quick fixes”, and even counseling that does not include learning actionable tools or taking self-responsibility – are not effective, in my opinion based on what I’ve seen over the last decade.
If you want to build a solid foundation to enjoy healthy, happy, secure open relationships in nine weeks or less, you’ll never get there in your lifetime on this planet if you do those things. There’s a much shorter path.
But is that the REAL reason good folks in newly polyamorous or open relationships are struggling?
No.
The real reason is that most people embarking in open relationships lack commitment, and are just dabbling at non-effective “solutions” to their own happiness, ultimate fulfillment, satisfaction, and overall well-being.
COMMITMENT (vs. dabbling). That’s right.
When the jealousy or insecurity or fear shows up, often folks repress or deny their emotions instead of facing them.
And when the endless fights until 2am and the blame starts, then any commitment to each other or to their own well-being, as well as their other intimate relationship(s) REALLY goes out the window…
Let’s be honest – have you ever done this?
If you have, don’t sweat it. Nobody’s perfect. I’ve done it too. Because humans are just being humans!
Many others have realized that they have been “dabbling” in finding effective solutions to building secure, open, healthy relationships for years, and never really made a commitment to the process by getting the expert help they really need.
THAT’S why they are still stuck.
But now that you know where a lack of commitment to your well-being and cherished values (once defined) leads…
I believe you owe it to yourself to start making a defiant commitment to your own happiness and desire for deep connections with your loves the #1 priority in your relationships… and ultimately your life.
Why? Because you DESERVE happiness and fulfillment!
What if I told you there was a way you could have your cake and eat it too… without ever compromising your integrity or commitment to yourself and your emotional health.
What if there were a way you could enjoy super connected, loving, passion-filled, sexy (if that’s what you want) multiple relationships… and demonstrate total integrity the entire time?
Obviously, that’d be really different than what almost everyone else is doing, right?
Just by displaying a little integrity and commitment, you set yourself up for the most rewarding transformational journey and bliss-filled life beyond your wildest dreams!
If you want to have joyful, multiple relationships (whether you are polyamorous or consensually non-monogamous) and you want to do it without ever compromising your integrity and commitment to your own happiness and well-being, then here’s what I have for you.
I’ve opened up a couple slots in my calendar to speak with you personally. I am deeply passionate about helping folks just like you find bliss, actionable tools you can use right now, and the confidence and strength to do it all!
Book a call now at: lovingwithoutboundaries.com/apply
The call is totally free, and will last about 45 minutes and in it, we’ll talk about what is alive for you right now, what you’re struggling with, what you REALLY want in your relationships, as well as discuss giving you the tools you need to change your relationship with jealousy/insecurity/fear/guilt/shame and even transform it, and stay that way!
You may look back on this day with a big smile months from now as being the start of a transformational journey for you! I’m so excited to speak with you! I invite you to book a call now!
With tremendous love,
Kitty Chambliss, PCC, CPC, ELI-MP
Founder, Loving Without Boundaries
