Our clients Keithan and Deanna came to us out of desperation, hopelessness, and sadness. On our first call, Deanna felt their marriage “was doomed” due to broken trust after infidelity that left her feeling insecure, and spiraling down into a manic depressive state. She had difficulty managing her emotions and communicating respectfully due to her upset.
Keithan was struggling with guilt and shame due to his past inappropriate behavior and lack of trustworthiness. They both were attempting to live a polyamorous lifestyle, but just didn’t have the tools to do it well, which lead to violations of their agreements time and time again. They were exhausted, and grasping at straws trying to save their marriage.
Why am I telling you this?
It’s to give you hope…
You see, Keithan and Deanna had tried everything. None of it worked! They were at rock bottom, and were considering a divorce if they could not get this figured out. Also they realized that lying to their therapist about their polyamorous nature – due to fear of being judged – wasn’t working either. They needed help from a non-judgmental third party.
Then something amazing happened.
While researching, Keithan stumbled upon my website. We had our first call together. At first, Deanna was skeptical about a practicing open relationship expert helping them. Would that coach try to ram open relationships down their throat as the only way to do relationships? Eek!
Needless to say, Keithan and Deanna had some fear.
Yet, despite that, they trusted their gut, and said “yes” to their dream of a healthy marriage. They dove in and went to work. They applied our system. They were diligent, and stayed coachable.
In our first week of working together, Keithan said that, “They got more out of one call with Kitty than three years of researching open relationships and going to therapy / counseling.”
Wow! That’s amazing!
They had spectacular results in literally a few short weeks! Their trust was being re-built, and the love was coming back! I was thrilled with their progress. By the end of working together, Deanna said she loved the entire program, including seeing her own growth, which was mind-blowing! She never imagined coming this far in such a short amount of time.
I applaud their courage and bravery in building their relationship on their terms. I know that takes guts. So many good folks like Keithan and Deanna may need help along the way, because this open relationship journey CAN be hard! There is no shame at all in asking for help.
Deanna shared in a testimonial:
“The Jealousy Survival Guide program saved us and our marriage. After 6 years together and 3 years of marriage, I found out my husband had been cheating on me for the majority of our relationship. It destroyed us and over the next year and a half, we tried it all – therapeutic couple’s retreats, self-help books, individual and couple’s counseling. While it helped some, we still found ourselves struggling with the dreadful D-Word (divorce) constantly looming over us. My husband came across Kitty’s work. I was instantly apprehensive because the program spoke about polyamory and opening of relationships — both of which, I felt landed us in the situation we were in because we were open to polyamory. We took the plunge especially since we didn’t disclose to our therapist that we were polyamorous out of fear of judgment. Well, enrolling in the JSG program was the best decision we could have made. Our lives as a couple and individually have been transformed. We got more out of one call with Kitty than we did in an entire year of counseling. In 8 short weeks, I feel closer to my husband than I ever felt, our intimate and emotional connections have deepened tremendously. I’m no longer stuck in the dark abyss of betrayal and distrust. I am now in better control of my thoughts and emotions; not succumbing to my triggers. My trust in him has increased tenfold having me look at him with heart eyes because I have fallen in love with him again. If our story resonates with you, please invest in yourself and your relationship and enroll in the JSG program. The program will help any type of relationship: monogamous, polyamorous, open relationships, parental, business, etc. while providing you with a safe, sex positive place to learn and grow. We are proud graduates of the JSG program and forever grateful to Kitty and the JSG Community that we now call FAMILY.”
Wow! How exciting! And I am thrilled for Keithan and Deanna.
Keithan went on to say: “We found Kitty out of desperation and needing someone we could be honest with about who we really were and what we had done in the past without judgment (we didn’t talk to our therapist about being polyamorous). During our Breakthrough Call, Kitty was able to pick-up on how damaged our overall relationship was and gave us tools from the very beginning. In the 8 weeks, we’ve come full circle and really appreciate this community and training that Kitty has put together and shared with us. We’ve learned so much more about ourselves individually and collectively. My wife, who was skeptical about the training at first, embraced it and has made major strides that she nor I thought were possible. In her own words, she looks at me with (love in her eyes) again.
I wanted to offer a real-life testimonial for this wonderful woman and publicly thank her for what she has done for my wife and I. Also, I would recommend the program to any and every one (polyamorous or not) – it’s AMAZING. And if you are dealing with/or relate to anything here, please invest in yourself and your relationships by doing this work.”
Yes! That’s what happens when you really know your truth and that you deserve happiness. That’s what happens when you have a mentor, a system that works, and the Loving Without Boundaries team in your corner.
By the end of our work, a miracle even happened: Deanna asked to wear her wedding rings again! Keithan got down on one knee in their home, and they re-cemented their love and marriage. YES!!! I have goosebumps!
And if Keithan and Deanna could do it with their marriage, is there any reason why YOU can’t do it with yours?
The truth: I’m not sure. I don’t know you personally, yet.
But there’s one way to find out:
Book a call with my team here: https://lovingwithoutboundaries.com/apply
We’ll put our heads together for about 45 minutes. Together, we’ll help you figure out what your truth is, and how you can create the relationships of your dreams, with amazing people you cherish. We’ll talk about what you’re struggling with, what you REALLY want in your relationships, as well as discuss giving you the tools you need to change your relationships for the better, and stay that way!
Deanna went on to share: “You saved us! Huge thank you to you, and I’ll be forever grateful! Not only did you save us, you saved ME! I realized I had things I needed to change in myself – I just didn’t have the tools. Now I do!”
…You know, there is hardly anyone or any resources offered that can create these types of transformations for courageous folks living life on their terms just like you, in open or alternative relationships. Many don’t share effective tools that provide immediate results.
Very few teachers and coaches can create the kind of transformation and beauty in their personal growth and relationships that Keithan and Deanna found.
Yet Loving Without Boundaries coaching can do that.
Book a call here. Let’s see what we can do for you.
The call is totally free, and will last about 45 minutes.
I invite you to book a call now at lovingwithoutboundaries.com/apply
You may look back on this day with a big smile months from now as being the start of a transformational journey for you! I’m so excited to speak with you!
With love and gratitude,
Kitty Chambliss, PCC, CPC, ELI-MP
Founder, Loving Without Boundaries