Cheers Sexy People!
Hello, Loving Without Boundaries (LWB) community! My heart goes out to you during these challenging times. I hope you are doing your best to keep safe. Sharing inspirational stories of hope, inclusion, and healthy lifestyles are more important than ever. If you are looking for ways to connect loved ones you are separated from, check out this blog post that I shared recently. On to another inspiring story…
I am delighted to share my latest podcast interview that I released last Friday with a good friend and local colleague of mine, Pour Votreplaisir. We jokingly are calling this episode “Everything You Wanted to Know About Polyamory (but were afraid to ask)”. We both realized that between us we have over 50+ years of polyamorous experience behind us. What have we learned? How can we help other’s with this profound and vast knowledge from some poly “kids” who have been around the block? We have both noticed so many new folks in the Loving Without Boundaries community (5,300 strong now as of this writing!) going through the same early open relationship agonies over and over. Pour and I realized that it may be quite reassuring to these relative newbies to know that this CAN work over the long-term. We are living proof of that. People our age (in their 50s and beyond) may already know alot of what we share in this episode, but we hope this gives younger folks some cheerful items to think about as they move through their own open relationship journey. Pour, it has been a pleasure to get to know you over recent years, seeing you at our local poly conferences (which are of course on hold at the moment). I send you love and light as you hold your arms around your poly COVID bubble. Let’s keep rocking!
Here is Pour Votreplaisir’s Bio:
Pour Votreplaisir writes and speaks about polyamory, relationships, and legal rights for sexual minorities. He’s been in polyamorous relationship since 1988, and is currently nurturing a COVID bubble of five. Despite living walking distance from Kitty’s house, they are just friends.
Some topics we discuss in this fun, informative, and entertaining interview:
- We answer questions such as: “what are the benefits of being polyamorous after age 45? How can it make ALL of life better (not just the romance part).
- Pour and I discuss how identifying as polyamorous changes the way you approach long-term relationships, when there is no “relationship escalator.”
- We also discuss polyamory as a way to build modern families or “building your village.”
- Sex is also a topic we do not shy away from in this episode, such can sex actually get better with age? Common questions such as “Where do you sleep in a polyamorous household?”
- Tune in to listen to this fantastic podcast episode!
Thank you, Pour, for being so awesomely generous with your time, for tireless advocacy over the years for the polyamorous lifestyle, and for sharing your wisdom and insights with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, entertaining, and so fun! Follow Pour’s work and adventures pourvotreplaisir.net, or on Facebook @pourvotreplaisir.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 147 with Pour. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the LWB podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
The Loving Without Boundaries podcast is sponsored by AltPlayground.net.
ANNOUNCEMENT — GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on this awesome podcast:
Shameless Sex Podcast with Amy and April – Episode 143, January 28, 2020
Check it out! We talk about all things jealousy, consensual non-monogamy, and living an alternative lifestyle while maintaining healthy relationships. Tune in to find out more!
EXCLUSIVE CONTENT OFFER – We have exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page. Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Right on, let’s do it! Want monthly “Hangouts” with yours truly and other patrons? Cool! Let’s do it! It’s all there! Come join us, and enjoy exclusive content made just for you, our patrons of this work!
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Free LWB Facebook Group for Healthy, Sex Positive, Open Relationships — Ready to explore healthy, connected (and virtually jealousy-free) open relationships? It’s all possible – especially when surrounded by a community of people already doing it. There’s an abundance of rock star information posted in the group daily by our amazing members. We create a safe place to engage that’s fun and thrilling! Click here and request to join our free group!
UPCOMING POLY-FRIENDLY EVENTS
PolyDallas Millennium 2020 — Virtual Conference, November 6–8, 2020. Come join me and other amazing folks at this year’s PolyDallas! I will be there signing copies of my book, recording podcast interviews, and generally supporting the amazing founder Ruby B. Johnson.
See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty
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