Our clients Dustin and Sara did not know how to communicate with each other. They were exhausted and frustrated. They needed help. Big time.
Every conversation turned into a competition, a battle, a “same old argument”. One of their arguments was… I kid you not… about mouse poop. Who was right about the poop, and who was wrong. It was maddening! I felt their pain. I’ve totally been there arguing about some seriously mundane and unimportant “crap”.
Why am I telling you this?
It’s not to talk about mouse poop – it’s to give you hope…
You see, Dustin and Sara had tried everything. Counselors (didn’t work). Therapy (didn’t work). Talking to each other (didn’t work). Ignoring the problem (didn’t work). They were at rock bottom, and about to throw in the towel on their five-year relationship. They were baffled: why can’t two smart professionals figure this out!? They had lost faith that a local professional could help them, and realized they needed someone who “GOT” polyamory and alternative relationships.
Then something amazing happened.
While researching, Dustin stumbled upon my work. At first, he was skeptical they could connect with an online coach. How would they experience an emotional connection with someone they never met who was 1000s of miles away? It seemed impossible. Sara had a poor impression of online learning. Could it meet her needs?
Yet, they dove in and went to work. They applied our system. They were sponges and absorbed everything, as they truly wanted to improve their relationship – ASAP! They were “utterly amazed” at what they learned – all in a short period of time and at their own pace.
Dustin shared that from the very first call, it was clear within the first few minutes that indeed there WAS a connection, at both an emotional and spiritual level – it was uncanny! Dustin and Sara shared in an interview that they had no longer believed in each other. Yet they felt MY belief in them! With a previous counselor, it felt to them like “they were in a car wreck and he was gawking at them”. Yet I helped them understand that there was work that they needed to do, and they COULD DO IT! As I kept reinforcing that, it made it easier for them to log on and do the work online, show up powerfully for our weekly coaching sessions, as well as do the work with each other. Because they had my faith and my support!
It’s true. I saw their beautiful union, their courage and bravery, building their relationship on their terms. I know that takes guts. So many good folks like Dustin and Sara may need help along the way, because this journey CAN be hard! There is no shame at all in asking for help.
“It’s not likely we would’ve made it through COVID without Kitty Chambliss and her priceless gift of real insight and tools to help us find these healthy and helpful communication tools. Every concern we had about doing this type of work remotely over the Internet melted away after our first online meeting with Kitty. This is not a weekly counseling session, it’s much much more. Every week she provided us with hours of content, downloads and tools. It was AWESOME! It’s not too late to start again. It was without a doubt the best investment we have made in ourselves and each other. It is priceless, it truly is PRICELESS! It’s much more than you’ll find in her book. It is SO much more. It’s like going to a couple’s weekend retreat every week, for eight weeks. It’s also content that you’ll have access to for the rest of your life. Is today the day or is it just another day? Make it the first day of the rest of your life.”
Wow! I am humbled. And I am overjoyed for Dustin and Sara.
He went on to say,
“Bottom line: There is absolutely no way we could have found a local counselor at ANY price to give us what you have given us, AND maintain access to it forever with the upgrades, the additional material that is added on an almost monthly basis. From a business-strictly numbers perspective, there is no better return on investment!”
That’s what happens when you really know your truth and you value your emotional health. That’s what happens when you have a mentor, a system that works, and the Loving Without Boundaries team in your corner.
And if Dustin and Sara could do it with their relationships, is there any reason why YOU can’t do it with yours?
The truth: I’m not sure. I don’t know you personally, yet.
But there’s one way to find out:
We’ll put our heads together for about 45 minutes. Together, we’ll help you figure out what your truth is, and how you can create the relationships of your dreams, with multiple amazing people you cherish. We’ll talk about what you’re struggling with, what you REALLY want in your relationships, and the tools you need to change your relationships for the better!
“There’s a part of your program that helped with me setting my own boundaries which was a big part of stopping my ‘people pleasing’. So while the program helped us as a couple, it also helped me as an individual. So it’s like a double whammy! I got so much benefit, both personal growth and relationship growth. So much value in it… No matter how you learn, Kitty provides it. There are videos, conversations, and handouts. This program is more than life changing… it is LIFE IMPROVING. I am personally improved and so is my relationship. We no longer fight; we have conversations! …Because of Kitty and the Program we now enjoy life and each other like we did when we first started dating! …Thank you so much for all you have provided for us, Kitty. We are a completely different couple than we were a month ago. And, we’ve each had quite a bit of self-discovery that has helped us grow personally and as a couple.”
You know, there aren’t many other professionals offering the right resources that can create these types of transformations for courageous folks living life on their terms just like you, in open or alternative relationships. Most don’t share effective tools that actually provide immediate results.
Very few teachers and coaches can create the kind of transformational personal growth journey and joy that Dustin and Sara found. Yet Loving Without Boundaries coaching can do that.
Book a call here. Let’s see what we can do for you.
The call is totally free, and will last about 45 minutes. You may look back on this day with a huge smile months from now as being the start of your own transformational journey! I’m so excited to speak with you!
With love and gratitude,
Kitty Chambliss, PCC, CPC, ELI-MP
Founder, Loving Without Boundaries
P.S. So many of my clients like Dustin and Sara are doing the happy dance, enjoy thriving relationships, even during this crazy time in history. And you know what? This journey all started when they booked the same call I’m inviting you to book. If they hadn’t made that appointment, that one decision would have cost them deeply cherished relationships.
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