Hey there,
I know this is an unusual time in history. During challenging times, the wobbly bits in the fabric of our lives can break apart at the seams. Many people are panicking and full of fear of loss. Plus none of us know when this will all be finally over. But the worst part for so many is being cooped up at home for months on end, which is exposing painful cracks in many people’s relationships!
Ask me how I know…
Because I am speaking to people and getting emails from folks every single day. They are describing awful fights well into the wee hours, destructive behavior that is getting worse, feeling like they are going out of their minds trying to figure out their relationships on their own.
Have you started to worry that your nesting relationships are not going to survive this stay-at-home situation that we are in? Have you noticed that feelings of frustration, anger, insecurity, self-doubt, or guilt are getting amplified? Are painful fights and arguments with toxic behavior starting to become your every day?
Have you started to worry that your relationship(s) may be in danger and are deteriorating? Or worse, that you will never truly be happy?
If you have started worrying about that, you are absolutely right!
These problems are very serious. The divorce rates in China have skyrocketed since all of this started. People are reaching out to me now saying they are discussing divorce in their open marriages just weeks into these challenging times in the U.S. while we are all stuck at home. Where will your relationships be months from now?
Plus so many good people are realizing that living a monogamous life is just not working for them as they flock into my community for help.
I get it! No one ever taught us how to have healthy monogamous relationships, let alone healthy non-monogamous ones! No wonder good folks like you are having difficulty!
These pressurized relationships being cooped up in close quarters are creating doubt, fear, stress, tension, debilitating fights, and folks feeling stuck, trapped, and sometimes in a PRISON of their emotions/homes and more.
This also affects people’s health which we all really need right now more than ever! People who are worried about the sustainability of their cherished relationships tell me they are having sleepless nights, endless crying, screaming/yelling, and are not able to properly be present for their children by these distractions. Many also feel so alone with nowhere to turn for help – especially help with open relationships, such as polyamory and consensual non-monogamy that many don’t understand.
I know that as a brave, thoughtful, caring person in an open relationship, you are smart enough to know that this situation is not sustainable or healthy, or what you or your loved ones deserve.
HERE’S THE BOTTOM LINEMany of these open relationships ARE headed for divorce/breakup if people don’t get the tools to seal up the cracks and get back to loving, healthy, affectionate partnering again. You know… the reasons you are in a relationship in the first place! Connection, love, and belonging to a team.
The honest truth is that the odds are against you figuring this out on your own.
But they don’t have to be.
It doesn’t have to be this way. You simply don’t have to live like this – not during this coronavirus pandemic – or EVER!
Ask me how I know?
Because I am working with folks just like you every day who are using ninja communication tools, powerful emotion management tools, and learning not only how to survive in their multiple local AND long-distance relationships, but THRIVE! They are saying to me “Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for helping us! We are so happy and in love again, and hopeful about the future.”
The real tragedy of staying in a toxic pattern is that with our help, so many would be virtually guaranteed to massively improve ALL of their relationships… not just during this pandemic, but for years to come with lifelong powerful tools, all with expert support to implement them right away.
I love this community. I want to help you succeed. I want to see you and your loved ones happy.
If you want to discuss how we can work together to improve your relationships starting right now, click below to book a free call with me:
Lovingwithoutboundaries.com/apply
You were meant for more. You already are courageous living life on your terms. Together we can up-level your precious relationships and your life.
Let’s get you more lovin’ and less fightin’.
If you want to discuss how we can work together to change your odds from very low to a SURE THING, click the link to book a call with me: lovingwithoutboundaries.com/apply
Stay safe. Talk soon.
– Kitty Chambliss, ACC, CPC, ELI-MP
