Cheers Sexy People!
I am truly so excited to share my latest podcast interview that I recently released with sex educator, founder of Sex Ed A Go Go, and “edu-tainer” Dirty Lola! I had the delightful honor of meeting Dirty Lola at this past year’s Southwest Love Fest back in March 2019 when she spear-headed the Saturday night festivities. This conference was mind blowing to me, and that included all of the shockingly good entertainment. Dirty Lola’s segment was no exception. I found her hilarious, insightful, and wicked smart! We had the opportunity to meet again when we were on the same panel for Effy Blue’s Curious Fox podcast recorded in Brooklyn, New York where the topic was Metamours. It was a fantastic evening and a great conversation, just as this interview is as well. Dirty Lola! You are such an fun and delightful inspiration to us all! Thank you for your vulnerable transparency, your continued sex positive work, and for being an all-around amazing (and hilarious) human. I think I love you! <3
Here is Dirty Lola’s bio:
Dirty Lola is a performer, edutainer, sex educator, and the creator and host of the live sex Q&A / variety show and podcast Sex Ed A Go Go. During the last six years, she has shared her distinctive brand of kickass body and sex-positivity and her personal journey into the kink and poly lifestyles on and off stage.
Some topics we discuss in this educational, fun, and fascinating interview:
— Dirty Lola self-identifies as a black, queer, kinky, slutty, polyamorous woman. Yeah! Own it!
— She shares so vulnerably and powerfully what her very clear lightbulb moment was when she knew she was polyamorous, and always had been. What a revelation to have permission that polyamory is a valid relationship structure. Amen to that!
— Dirty Lola shares a term called “situationally polyamorous” and what that means.
— What a beautiful journey Dirty Lola tells us about, with her long distance relationships (which can feel very structured from a time management perspective) and local relationship(s), and what a full heart and life she has!
— We philosophize about why polyamory and consensual non-monogamy work so well in this modern world.
— Some of Dirty Lola’s relationship history involves young love, marriage, exploration, interracial relationships, and she describes where she is now. Dirty Lola shares so powerfully, owning her growth and change. Yes!
— Tune in to listen to this awesome podcast episode!
Thank you Dirty Lola, for being so awesomely generous with your time, for adding delightful humor while you help educate the masses with your talent, and for sharing your wisdom and insights with us via the podcast interview! It was enlightening, deeply informative, and so fascinating! Follow her work and adventures at sexedagogo.com, on Twitter and Instagram @dirtylola, or email her at dirtylola@sexedagogo.com.
To hear the podcast, go to the Podcast link here and subscribe to the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then check out Episode 120 with Dirty Lola. Also, please help spread awareness of alternative lifestyles and create more tolerance for consensual non-monogamy in the world at large by Rating and Reviewing the Loving Without Boundaries podcast in iTunes. It only takes a few minutes.
If you would like to be interviewed either in written form or via audio on the podcast, please feel free to contact me and we will set something up. Thank you!
ANNOUNCEMENTS
1. SEXY SUMMER GIVEAWAY —> LWB PODCAST CONTEST for NEW or UPGRADED PATRONS
We have some exciting goings on here at Loving Without Boundaries (LWB). We offer exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page for those who choose to become a patron. I have updated our awesome offerings to give you even more value. I invite you to check out how you can come join the party over at Patreon! Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Want to dig deeper into the community and your fellow poly folk? Right on, let’s do it! Want free coaching sessions? It’s all there! Read on to find out more…
OUR BIG AUDACIOUS GOAL: To get to $250 a month to help cover the cost of broadcasting fees and our amazing sound engineer. Once we reach this milestone, I will be doing the happy dance! I’ll even video it for our new patrons! Yes that’s right! I’ll video me jumping up and down celebrating YOU and helping us get to this important milestone for the podcast. Go to this post to learn find out how you can win prizes by becoming a patron and supporting the continuation of this work.
2. GUEST PODCAST APPEARANCES
I recently have had the honor of being featured on three other podcasts:
Curios Fox Podcast – Episode 4 on Metamours (Your Lover’s Lover) – which was recorded live in Brooklyn, NY
Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver
Core Confidence Life with Dennis Sumlin
With PolyAnna, Episode 7 – which was recorded live at Southwest Love Fest 2019, which was attended by Marla!
Check them out! We talk about all things jealousy, consensual non-monogamy, and living an alternative lifestyle while maintaining healthy relationships. On “With PolyAnna”, I vulnerably share a story about why pole dancing changed my life! Tune in to find out more!
EXCLUSIVE CONTENT OFFER – We continue to have some exciting goings on here at Loving Without Boundaries (LWB). We now have exclusive content for you via the LWB podcast and my Patreon page for those who choose to become a patron. Please visit the link to check out how you can come join the party over at Patreon! Want to hear more from our amazing interviewees? You got it! Want to dig deeper into the community and your fellow poly folk? Right on, let’s do it! Want monthly “Hangouts” with yours truly and other patrons? Cool! Let’s do it! It’s all there! Come join us, and enjoy exclusive content made just for you, our patrons of this work!
NOTE: Monthly group “hangout” and coaching calls for all of our podcast patrons at any level are under way. If you are supporting the podcast, I am supporting you on your journey. Come join us and meet like-minded folks on the same journey you are!
UPCOMING POLYAMOROUS-FRIENDLY EVENTS
Free LWB Facebook Group for Healthy, Sex Positive, Open Relationships — Ready to explore healthy, deeply connected (and virtually jealousy-free) open relationships? It’s all possible – especially when surrounded by a community of people already doing it. Many in newly open relationships experience roller coaster emotions of jealousy, insecurity, and feel alone on their journey. That’s why I created this free Facebook group where people are coming together to share actionable tips for succeeding in multiple loving relationships, explore deeper love, and find mutual understanding and support. There’s an abundance of rock star information posted in the group daily by our amazing members. We create a safe place to engage that’s fun and thrilling! Click here and request to join our free group!
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See you on the flip side, lovely community! Keep being brave, compassionately vulnerable, and uniquely and authentically you!
Wishing you peace, love and happiness
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty
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