Cheers Sexy People!
Jealousy is a NATURAL, NORMAL human emotion that many of us feel from time to time, no matter what our chosen relationship structure is (poly, mono, or otherwise).
Sound crazy? If so, you may have bought into the myth that people in open / polyamorous relationships should not and do not feel jealousy. Ever.
Maybe you’ve been told that polyamorous people don’t feel jealousy and if you do, you are “doing it wrong”…
Or maybe you’ve been led to believe that there is something inherently unhealthy about being in multiple relationships at the same time, so you deserve to feel those awful jealous feelings…
Well I’m here to tell you that is all simply not true! I’m busting those myths!
With practice and focus, we can all change our relationship with the emotion of jealousy – not obliterate it. Our feelings give us wonderful and valuable information.
Imagine if you could practice and learn to effectively and eventually effortlessly manage our own emotions and then RESPOND versus REACT to stressors such as jealousy, creating more CONNECTION in your relationship!
So why am I sharing this with you?
Because what I noticed as I work with awesome folks like you is that with some simple (not easy!) strategies and mindset shifts, it’s totally possible to learn to take care of oneself first practicing radical self-love, taking responsibility for our own emotions, and by doing so, find more peace of mind and resiliency to handle the ups and downs of our multiple loving relationships! Yes that feels so great and rewarding – like a superhero!
It’s more a matter of learning to observe our feelings with curiosity instead of reacting to them, looking inward to adjust or change any beliefs that no longer serve us (HINT: some are leftover from monogamy!), and use proven communication tools to truly connect with our loved ones in a powerful way!
That’s why I thought I’d open up a couple slots in my calendar to speak with you personally.
The call is totally free, and will last about 45 minutes and in it, we’ll talk about what is alive for you right now, what you’re struggling with, what you REALLY want in your relationships, as well as discuss giving you the tools you need to change your relationship with jealousy and even transform it, and stay that way!
I invite you to book a call now! You may look back on this day with a big smile months from now as being the start of a transformational journey for you! I’m so excited to speak with some of you!
Wishing you peace, love, and happiness,
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)
Kitty Chambliss, ACC, CPC, ELI-MP