Cheers Sexy People!
Hello beautiful people! Telling you that I am truly honored to serve this growing community would be a massive understatement. Thank YOU for your love, support, and cheerleading for a girl who had a dream. Book launch day – a day where I hope to have a positive impact towards other people’s lives – is finally here….and I’m SOO excited! You can download the Kindle version of the book RIGHT NOW, and for the next five days until 11:59pm Sunday, November 5th. Don’t miss the opportunity to get your FREE KINDLE copy of the book: Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship.
I’m blown away by what your reviews say! I’m so grateful to the reviewers so far that not only did you enjoy my book in some way – but that you (and others who read your review) may get help when jealousy threatens the joy of their relationships (whether mono, poly, friendship, colleague, etc).
Here is what people are saying about “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship:”
“Jealousy. We’ve all experienced it to some degree throughout our lives. Sometimes we were able to control our jealousy, other times it controlled us. No matter what kind of relationship you are in, the “Green Eyed Monster” called Jealousy will rear its ugly head. How you react and deal with it will determine whether your relationship thrives or dies. Kitty Chambliss’ “Jealousy Survival Guide” is filled with insightful and practical advice on dealing with jealousy in all its forms, as well as simple and effective exercises to help you learn how to maintain control over jealousy and, ultimately, your happiness. Although the Jealousy Survival Guide is focused on open relationships, the lessons learned within this book can be applied to all types of relationships. After all, jealousy isn’t discriminatory. Kitty’s writing style is filled with compassion, humor, personal anecdotes, and no-holds-barred, effective guidance. Her personal story is inspirational and her non-judgmental approach makes learning how to deal with a very emotional subject an easy and enjoyable read. Jealousy Survival Guide brings enlightenment on a sensitive subject, as well as the potential for massive personal growth.” — David
“Relationships can be a profound source of unhappiness. So it is very easy to blame your situation or the person you are with for some of the grief you experience. I love that Kitty focuses on taking responsibility for your joy while digging deep into the neglected topic of jealousy. The truths in this book will help you personally and romantically because ultimately your ability to love yourself is the starting ground for creating an open environment to love others. You’ll learn, laugh and grow in love with this fantastic read!” — Bryce
“I don’t write reviews, but OM-Effing-G this is WORTH it! We all feel jealous, but what to do about it? Use it to make your relationship better. You may have seen some of the concepts here before, but Kitty keeps it down to earth and real.” — Rob
“The Jealousy Survival Guide is a quick yet very valuable read. I really like self help books that provide concrete, actionable steps, to help guide you through the issue at hand. This is one of those books; Chambliss peppers the book with some practical ideas on how to shift your thinking and your approach to problem solving. While the book is specifically tailored toward jealousy I suspect people will find much of the advice useful for any inter-personal communication. Particularly valuable is the chapter on communication. I’d heard inklings of the idea of “non-violent communication” before but I had no idea how rich a concept it is. The explanation here, as with other ideas in the book, is well crafted, easy to understand, and very helpful.” — Blair
Thank you to Tikva Wolf for this AWESOME comic to help get the word out!
“In a world where anyone can click a button and call themselves an “author”, it’s hard to distinguish between the real deal and fly by night wanna bes. After reading the Jealousy Survival Guide, you can clearly tell Kitty is beyond the real deal. She gives you practical real world advice, not some Mumbo jumbo she read on a forum somewhere and then put in a book. As someone who’s been exploring open relationships, sometimes it’s hard to explain to others. Other times, I find myself being somewhat of a hippocrite and being jealous of my partner(s) when they are with others. This book has given me practical advice to handle situations I commonly find myself in. Not only can I apply it to my romantic relationships, it’s helped me grow as a person. Kitty is the real deal. If you are thinking about getting this book, stop. Stop thinking and just get it. You won’t be dissapointed!” — Mike
“Kitty’s exuberance, accessibility, and can-do-attitude ring through in all her work, especially this book and her podcast. I’ve been following her writings and insights since before her blog began and I was so excited to read her thoughts on this much discussed topic. Whenever I have attended or hosted a non-monogamy discussion group, the topic of jealousy comes up eventually. Recently, I’ve noticed a trend toward people bottling up those feelings with a competitive spirit that comes off as Polyer-Than-Thou. So many folks declare they don’t ever feel jealous. Hard to believe. I think there’s some denial going on there that will eventually give away to anger and the other stages of grief. Much better to tackle it directly and this book can help uncover those repressed thoughts. I especially enjoyed the section called “Mindset Shift Two: Power Statements” that talks about naming our old thinking and declaring our new thinking with concrete examples, such as: ”Old: Experiencing jealousy will crush me and I can’t survive it.” ”New: I can accomplish anything I set my mind to, and I CAN stand experiencing the feeling of jealousy. I realize it is a normal, human emotion.” To me, that simple idea is the essence of this book and how you’ll feel after reading it.” — Wry
“This is a must read for anyone who wants to know how to feel safe, happy, and secure in ANY kind of relationship, not just open ones. Kitty Chambliss provides a hands-on, practical guide for dealing the the toxic stuff of jealousy, which can be applied pretty much to any relationship: husband/wife, monogamous life partners, business partners, friends, work colleagues and the list goes on. I especially loved the focus on personal values, the approach of compassion and her tips for forming better communication habits (we all need to work on those!!). So if you want loving, healthy, awesome relationships — give this a read (even if you’ve always been in monogamous relationships like me). It’s the real deal from a truly genuine and experienced author.” — Leah
“Jealousy Survival Guide delivers a concrete, actionable framework for understanding and dealing with jealousy. The structure is clear and easy to follow, and gives readers a roadmap to develop a new set of skills and strategies not only for dealing with jealousy, but also for improving communication, increasing compassion for yourself and others, and living a more personal values-centered life (all of which the author applies to the struggle of dealing with this difficult emotion – but they are valuable independently as well). While the author speaks to open relationships and their specific challenges with jealousy, the book’s framework and strategies can be used to address jealousy in other relationships as well. Recommended.” — Steve
I am overjoyed that the reviewers took the time to help others on this planet by sharing their thoughts on this book. Way to go, awesome YOU! You rock! Again you can download the Kindle version of the book RIGHT NOW, and for the next five days until 11:59pm Sunday, November 5th. Don’t miss the opportunity to get your FREE KINDLE copy of the book: Jealousy Survival Guide. Please feel free to tell your friends. The more people that can be aided by the contents of this book, the better. Sharing is TRULY caring.
The print version of the book is also available NOW! Audible will be coming soon (when I find the time to read the book to you). 🙂
Wishing you, peace, love, and happiness,
(and fun, thrilling sex too!)
Kitty
