“Ask Louloria” Corner: Focus on the Drama Triangle

Cheers Sexy People!

Happy Friday to you all you lovely lads and lassies! This week I would like to take the opportunity to highlight a good friend of mine, Louisa Leontiades’ work. She not only is the author of The Husband Swap and Lessons in Love and Life to my Younger Self, but she also has been interviewed for the blog here, and has been on my podcast as well. Thanks Louisa for being such an awesome supporter of the Loving Without Boundaries community! Whoot! She also was kind enough to ask me to guest post for her postmodernwomen.com efforts here.

Louisa has been rocking her part of the world over there in Sweden by writing an “Ask Louloria” column, which for those who remember it acts as a “Dear Abby” advice column for those of us in open and / or polyamorous relationships. How cool is that? She rocks, people! Check it out! I’m featuring a submission here where she mentions a concept called the Drama Triangle which I am fascinated with and have studied in my own life. This particular conundrum that “Ms. RockAndAHardPlace” writes about strikes a chord with me personally since I have lived under the same roof with my two male partners in the past, and very well may again in the future. I’m sure we all want a harmonious home life if at all possible. So watching someone else’s dynamic change in their polyamorous V is of great interest to me. Either way how we make our relationships work and thrive and learning effective techniques to do so is uber important, yes?

Without further ado, I’ll keep this short so that you have time to enjoy Louisa’s fine work. Thanks for sharing, Louisa with our community here! You rock!

Feel free to share your thoughts or additional advice in the comments below, my friends!

http://louisaleontiades.com/help-my-boyfriend-and-his-girlfriend-are-falling-apart/

Wishing you peace, love and happiness,
(and thrilling, fun sex too!)

Kitty