Confession: Sometimes I Suck at Compersion

Cheers Sexy People! I have a confession to make. Sometimes I suck at compersion… even though I write this polyamorous blog. Well, hey I partly write this blog to work out my angst or occasional problems with an audience for both feedback, but also in an effort to hopefully help others at the same time…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a woman in Asia

This is eighth in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This eighth interview is of a…

Featured Again on “Threesomes and Variations”

I am honored that last week’s blog post, Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values was recently highlighted again as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated more great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for…

Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I contemplated how rules, boundaries and negotiations work in polyamorous relationships, and pondered how we find common ground and figure out how to better understand each other while still honoring our own needs and desires at the same time. Once again, this can be challenging in a monogamous relationship, but…

Featured Article on “Threesomes and Variations”

I am honored that last week’s blog post, Polyamory Without Rules = Chaos? was recently highlighted as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated some great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for that matter).…

Nonviolent Communication and a “Coming Out” Story

Cheers Sexy People! I have been waiting for the right moment to share what I have learned about the concept and teachings of Nonviolent Communication as described by Marshall Rosenberg. Given how my last two weeks have been, now is the time, my dear friends. This is really powerful stuff, and it’s another bit of…

Sexual Libidos Don't Match Up: YIKES! IS IT OVER?

Cheers Sexy People! As you know, I talk to alot of people through social media and my blog. Recently, I was talking to a 37-year-old man who is in a monogamous relationship. But he was on a sexy social media site (FetLife) lurking around, considering cheating on his girlfriend. Why? Here’s what he has to…

Breaking The Silence on Monogamy – A New Documentary Explores Whether We Are Wired for Fidelity

Cheers Sexy People! Why is the divorce rate so incredibly high? (roughly 50% of married couples in America end in divorce as per www.divorcerate.org) Is monogamy necessary for a healthy relationship in today’s society… or is honesty, to your partner and to yourself possibly just as healthy? Why does infidelity cause so much pain, heartache…

Poly Single vs. Poly Married – A Male Perspective

Cheers Sexy People! This post is second in a series of two posts answering a reader’s question below. The first time I answered it, the response was from three female poly bloggers, including yours truly. (Click here to see the original blog post). So I wanted to give it another go but this time, from…