Non-Primary Partners: How To Treat Us Well (and Fun with Greeting Cards)

Cheers Sexy People! Three years ago today, my beloved husband dropped me off for a date with another man… Then he picked me up at the end of the date… …Yeah, that’s right. Does that sound weird to you? It almost did to us too, but we decided to give this polyamory stuff a try……

Walking Out Of The Darkness

Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…

3 Communication Pitfalls To Avoid

Hello Sexy People! Today I am recovering from a 5-day mini vacation / destination wedding in the heart of the U.S. in Nashville, TN. I may have over-celebrated a little bit.  🙂  Being that it is Tuesday after Memorial Day Weekend, I’m betting many of you are also recovering from hopefully fun-filled weekends. So I…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a young man in LA (Part Two)

This is the third in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This third interview is of…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a young man in LA (Part One)

This is the third in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This third interview is of…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a young female writer

This is the second in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This second interview is of…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a poly-fi father

This is the first in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This first interview is of…

Open Awareness vs. Open Approval (and Fun With Poly Terms)

Cheers Sexy People! I have found that as I go through this amazing journey of life full of interesting twists and turns, including those that go with being polyamorous, that sometimes having terminology to describe complex ideas is quite helpful! So I thought this blog post could shed some light on what I found to…

Effective Communication Is Sooo Impawww-tant!

Hola Sexy People, Whether you are in a monogamous relationship OR a polyamorous one, we all know that communication is soooo impawww-tant. 🙂  But it becomes even increasingly so in polyamorous relationships partly because there are more people involved trying to relate to each other in a happy, healthy way. And sometimes there is even…