The Countdown is ON like Donkey Kong: FREE Book Offer: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship”

Cheers Sexy People! The countdown is on! The Kindle version of my first book: “Jealousy Survival Guide: How to feel safe, happy, and secure in an open relationship” is available now for only 99 cents for a limited time only. I wrote this book to help YOU as much as possible, based on my own research,…

Podcast Interview: Mango Garofalo, Van-Dwelling, Lifestyle, and Adventure Enthusiast

Cheers Sexy People! It is with exuberant pleasure that I am sharing my latest podcast interview here that I created with my great friend and colleague, Mango Garofalo. I first had the pleasure of meeting Mango last April 2016 at a professional development retreat that I attended in Utah with my business mentors from The Connection Effect that I…

Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I contemplated how rules, boundaries and negotiations work in polyamorous relationships, and pondered how we find common ground and figure out how to better understand each other while still honoring our own needs and desires at the same time. Once again, this can be challenging in a monogamous relationship, but…

Sexual Libidos Don't Match Up: YIKES! IS IT OVER?

Cheers Sexy People! As you know, I talk to alot of people through social media and my blog. Recently, I was talking to a 37-year-old man who is in a monogamous relationship. But he was on a sexy social media site (FetLife) lurking around, considering cheating on his girlfriend. Why? Here’s what he has to…

Sex, Lies and Hypocrisy: It’s What’s On the Menu

Cheers Sexy People! A funny thing happened to me on my way home from pole fitness class. An old friend was in town, a friend that I used to have a crush on at different periods of my life, including my former life as a serial monogamist. We had never gotten together in the past…

Breaking The Silence on Monogamy – A New Documentary Explores Whether We Are Wired for Fidelity

Cheers Sexy People! Why is the divorce rate so incredibly high? (roughly 50% of married couples in America end in divorce as per www.divorcerate.org) Is monogamy necessary for a healthy relationship in today’s society… or is honesty, to your partner and to yourself possibly just as healthy? Why does infidelity cause so much pain, heartache…