Introverts, Introspection and Something Beautiful :)

Hello Sexy Peeps! As I’m gearing up to attend my first Beyond The Love conference and am busily preparing, packing and getting pumped up to be in the company of throngs of people, I have been getting quite introspective lately. As I have been dipping my toe back into dating life, I have been having a massive…

Sleeping With An Ex… Is it Wrong? – Agreements and Boundaries in Poly

Cheers Sexy People! I received a very strong and thought provoking comment on yesterday’s blog post, When Poly Rubber Hits the Bumpy Road. I always most certainly appreciate and welcome feedback on my blog posts, so thank you, dear reader! It’s so great to keep the conversation going and build this community. I thought it…

Polyamory / Honesty and Online Dating – An Oxymoron?

Cheers Sexy People! So, you think you might be polyamorous, and this alternative lifestyle may suit you, but where do you find these elusive potential “poly” mates, considering that not everyone is “out of the closet” or wearing their “freak” flag on a daily basis? In addition, consider that the polyamorous / ethically non-monogamous community…

Polyamory, Discrimination and The Aftermath of “Coming Out”

Cheers Sexy People! I have two questions for you to ponder, and as always, I welcome your thoughts on both: 1) If someone takes the time to confide in you that they are living a non-traditional, alternative lifestyle (such as bi, gay, polyamorous, etc), do you focus on the fact that they trusted you enough…

Walking Out Of The Darkness

Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…

3 Communication Pitfalls To Avoid

Hello Sexy People! Today I am recovering from a 5-day mini vacation / destination wedding in the heart of the U.S. in Nashville, TN. I may have over-celebrated a little bit.  🙂  Being that it is Tuesday after Memorial Day Weekend, I’m betting many of you are also recovering from hopefully fun-filled weekends. So I…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a young man in LA (Part Two)

This is the third in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This third interview is of…