Poly Married VS. Poly Single as it Relates to Security & Jealousy

Cheers Sexy People! I want to dedicate this blog post to a question that I received from one of my readers in Australia. Here is her question to me: Q: Do you feel as though your “status” as a married person gives you a greater stability from which to explore polyamory? I am single, and…

Can Polyamory Save A Relationship (and Other Conundrums)?

Cheers Sexy People! How do we stay true to ourselves while staying true to our loved ones? How HONEST about who we are do we want to be, even to ourselves? When do we start to build resentment for hiding our true nature, stuffing our feelings down or denying ourselves pleasure? How often do we…

Walking Out Of The Darkness

Cheers Sexy People! This past Saturday nite, I went to the Out Of The Darkness Walk (sponsored by the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention) in support of several of my friends who were walking in memory of those that they had lost through suicide. I was deeply moved by the experience. There were over 2,000…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a young man in LA (Part One)

This is the third in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This third interview is of…

Catalog of Poly Mistakes (Or How I Fell Down This Week)

Cheers Sexy People! Well, as with anything in life, living a polyamorous lifestyle has its ups and downs. The past week has had its share of that for me. Maybe one of the things that I enjoy about being polyamorous is my dread of boredom, and my enjoyment of living life to the fullest. Sometimes…

Letting Go Of Attachment

Cheers Sexy People! I’ve been thinking a lot recently about the fluidity of relationships, and particularly polyamorous ones. As we evolve and change and grow, so do our relationships. Sometimes relationships can withstand the change, sometimes out of our love for one another, we have to let each other go — to pursue other dreams,…