A “Poly-ish” Wedding, Taboos and Another “Coming Out” Party

Cheers Sexy People, Three important and epic things happened since we last spoke, readers – two directly related to the poly world, one related to decreasing stigmas about “taboo” topics that typical, everyday mainstream society would prefer not to talk about: My husband and I attended the infertility documentary in NYC to help lessen the…

Polyamory, Discrimination and The Aftermath of “Coming Out”

Cheers Sexy People! I have two questions for you to ponder, and as always, I welcome your thoughts on both: 1) If someone takes the time to confide in you that they are living a non-traditional, alternative lifestyle (such as bi, gay, polyamorous, etc), do you focus on the fact that they trusted you enough…

Non-Primary Partners: How To Treat Us Well (and Fun with Greeting Cards)

Cheers Sexy People! Three years ago today, my beloved husband dropped me off for a date with another man… Then he picked me up at the end of the date… …Yeah, that’s right. Does that sound weird to you? It almost did to us too, but we decided to give this polyamory stuff a try……

I Should Be His One and Only – Is That True?

Cheers Sexy People, I recently wrote a blog post here referencing the book I Need Your Love: Is That True, which is an amazingly fabulous book by Byron Katie. Her teachings can change your life and your overall happiness if you let it. Definitely worth checking out. I wanted to eventually show you her work…

“Coming Out” As Polyamorous: Part Deux

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing this blog post as a follow up to an earlier one, to continue my story on “coming out” to our family and friends about being polyamorous. The last post, I spoke about what lead up to the decision to “come out” including the reasons that we finally decided to…

“Coming Out” as Polyamorous: My Story

Cheers Sexy People! A fellow blogger recently posted about the decision to “come out” as polyamorous to friends and family. There were many questions, and a lively discussion broke out around the topic. I knew at some point I would write about this, so why not now? The decision to come out or not is…