Live-In Trial Run Experiment Week Update – “V” Poly Configuration

Cheers Sexy People! In my last post, I mentioned that within my own polycule, we had a trial run week of my boyfriend living with my husband and I full-time as practice for the potential real thing. A member of the Loving Without Boundaries community was kind enough to reach out and ask if I would elaborate…

What is the Difference Between Polygamy and Polyamory? Let’s clear this up…

Cheers Sexy People! Happy Friday, you sexy beasts! Several times in the last week or so, poly-curious peeps have used the word “polygamy” with me when discussing my lifestyle and the contents of this blog, website and the Loving Without Boundaries movement. I see that there is quite a bit of confusion surrounding the words “polygamy”…

New Term: “Polyfidelit-ish”… and Polysaturated Musings

Cheers Sexy People! Welcome to Friday! We made it another week! I hope yours was fantastic. Mine was… well… pretty epic in my poly life. I haven’t even completely processed it all yet. As many of us veteran poly-practicing peeps know, the act of “processing” and sifting through emotions and thoughts as we traverse this unusual journey…

Polyamory Isn’t All About F*cking: The Art of Multiple Loves

Cheers Sexy People! The happiest of holidays to you! A member of our community, Ed H. recently shared with me an amazing article that I think really hit the nail on the head of artfully discussing polyamory as it relates to love and sex, and I want to share it with you. How many of you…

Monogamy Under the Microscope: CNN, Time, and the Ashley Madison Hack

Hello Polyworld! I’m JJ, Kitty’s husband. I’m oft-mentioned but rarely seen in the wild, kind of like Big Foot, or the Incredible Hulk (though sadly without all the bulgy muscles. On the other hand, I don’t have the green complexion either, so let’s call it a wash.)   Up to now I’ve mostly hung out…

Holy Shit – I’m an EMPATH! … How Polyamory and Grief Can Play in the Same Sandbox

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote about how I was devastated and deeply saddened by losing a dear friend, colleague and mentor in a tragic accident while he was about to reach the summit of the tallest mountain in Africa – an achievement he always wanted. It just completely broke my heart to see this incredible…

Podcast: Rick Clemons Interview – Coming Out Coach

Cheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here! And it’s an awesome one! I had the pleasure of meeting Rick Clemons at a conference I recently attended in Portland, OR. Rick’s speciality is as a Coming Out Coach for polyamorous, homosexual, bisexual, transgender, queer folk – you name it! We immediately struck up the most…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a female musician in a triad

This is twelfth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This twelfth interview is with a female musician in her mid-30s…

It’s My Party and She’ll Cry If She Wants To (“Coming Out Story”)

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I regaled you with stories of my worst coming out ever. Upon being “out”d” at a party that I was throwing for my husband, my newer friend felt very out of sorts and proceeded to get rather upset and fled the party! It was a bit of a clusterfuck. I…