Working Through Challenges, “The Wait” and Franklin’s Secondary Bill of Rights

Cheers Sexy People! I hope that you are having a great week! I am experiencing a challenging week I’m not afraid to say. I find that when I’m vulnerable with my sharing and what’s going on with my polyamorous life, I connect better with my readers creating a win-win for all of us. It’s great to talk…

Live-In Trial Run Experiment Week Update – “V” Poly Configuration

Cheers Sexy People! In my last post, I mentioned that within my own polycule, we had a trial run week of my boyfriend living with my husband and I full-time as practice for the potential real thing. A member of the Loving Without Boundaries community was kind enough to reach out and ask if I would elaborate…

I Forgave Him – But Now What? (Damage Control After Infidelity)

Cheers Sexy People! I felt a massive weight had been lifted off of my shoulders after I recently truly forgave my boyfriend for his indiscretions that I talked about in this post. We had a really powerful conversation – not only about forgiveness, but ways in which I wanted to take ownership of being a great, attentive…

Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I contemplated how rules, boundaries and negotiations work in polyamorous relationships, and pondered how we find common ground and figure out how to better understand each other while still honoring our own needs and desires at the same time. Once again, this can be challenging in a monogamous relationship, but…

Nonviolent Communication and a “Coming Out” Story

Cheers Sexy People! I have been waiting for the right moment to share what I have learned about the concept and teachings of Nonviolent Communication as described by Marshall Rosenberg. Given how my last two weeks have been, now is the time, my dear friends. This is really powerful stuff, and it’s another bit of…

Emotional Strength and Polyamory Go Together Like…

Cheers Sexy People! Even though I write this blog doling out any insights I find, and do oodles of research on polyamory / ethical non-monogamy, communication, relationships, etc, sometimes I fuck up anyway. I view trying to live an ethically non-monogamous life, juggling more than one relationship, and doing my best to live a purposeful,…

Sex, Lies and Hypocrisy: It’s What’s On the Menu

Cheers Sexy People! A funny thing happened to me on my way home from pole fitness class. An old friend was in town, a friend that I used to have a crush on at different periods of my life, including my former life as a serial monogamist. We had never gotten together in the past…

3 Communication Pitfalls To Avoid

Hello Sexy People! Today I am recovering from a 5-day mini vacation / destination wedding in the heart of the U.S. in Nashville, TN. I may have over-celebrated a little bit.  🙂  Being that it is Tuesday after Memorial Day Weekend, I’m betting many of you are also recovering from hopefully fun-filled weekends. So I…