First Step In A Poly Life, Feeling Brave and Glorious LOVE

Cheers Sexy People! I have been thinking quite a bit lately about courage, finding our true selves, being authentic, facing challenges, and it is all very relevant to me in the decision / inclination to be polyamorous or not. Deciding to live an ethically non-monogamous life on purpose and out loud takes a load of…

Over 500 Followers! Over 10,000 Views! Thank you, Everyone!

Cheers Sexy People! I wanted to take a moment to THANK YOU! As of this week, I have reached over 500 subscribers, and have had over 10,000 views on this humble blog…. in under a year! I can’t thank you enough for your support, encouragement, comments and inspiration. It has been an interesting and educational…

Face Your Fear: The Results Might Just Be Amazing

Cheers Sexy People! What are some of your biggest fears? We all have them. “Fears are like annoying relatives. You can’t avoid them forever and ignoring them won’t make them go away…” Are you afraid of feelings of jealousy or insecurity if you open up your relationship? Are you afraid of losing your lover if…

Special VD Post: What Does An Open Marriage LOOK Like?

Cheers Sexy People, I am sometimes asked by friends in real life or cyber acquaintances: How does your open marriage work? Or recently, my good friend (who knows about my polyamorous household / situation) asked: So how does Valentine’s Day work in your world? Will we see a “VD” special (post) marking the occasion? Sure,…

Sex, Lies and Hypocrisy: It’s What’s On the Menu

Cheers Sexy People! A funny thing happened to me on my way home from pole fitness class. An old friend was in town, a friend that I used to have a crush on at different periods of my life, including my former life as a serial monogamist. We had never gotten together in the past…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a married male blogger

This is seventh in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This seventh interview is of a…

Sleeping With An Ex… Is it Wrong? – Agreements and Boundaries in Poly

Cheers Sexy People! I received a very strong and thought provoking comment on yesterday’s blog post, When Poly Rubber Hits the Bumpy Road. I always most certainly appreciate and welcome feedback on my blog posts, so thank you, dear reader! It’s so great to keep the conversation going and build this community. I thought it…

When Poly Rubber Hits the Bumpy Road (or Three Is A Magic Number)

Cheers Sexy People! Happy New Year, peeps! I hope you all had a love and laughter filled holiday, complete with sexy time and some adventures too. I know I did! I have lots to tell! It’s been quite a ride. Let me catch you up on my polyamorous life, filled with exciting twists and turns……

Poly Single vs. Poly Married – A Male Perspective

Cheers Sexy People! This post is second in a series of two posts answering a reader’s question below. The first time I answered it, the response was from three female poly bloggers, including yours truly. (Click here to see the original blog post). So I wanted to give it another go but this time, from…