Keep Yo Hands To Yo’Self!

Cheers Sexy People! I’ve missed you! Thanks for your patience. Today is day three of my newfound freedom being my own boss, being more and more authentic every single day, taking this life and ROCKING it! I love my life and I love writing to all of you! Writing this blog makes me happy, and…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a pole dancing grandmother in her 50s

This is ninth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This ninth interview is with a close female friend…

Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married?

Cheers Sexy People! I am a proud, polyamorous woman, but I have several times been asked: Why be married if you are in several relationships, possible acting as a free agent anyway? What’s the point of the marriage? Why bother? The first time I was asked this, I admit I bristled and wanted to get…

Emotion Management and Love, Sweet Love!

Cheers Sexy People! Well, it’s been a helluva week! Lots of ups and downs and revelations. I’ve been thinking alot lately about emotion management and release, being authentic, and how love truly makes the world go round. Have you ever had moments where you feel like you are being replaced? It brings up feelings of…

Poly Married With Children and The Church of Monogamy

Cheers Sexy People, I have had quite the busy work, personal and poly life lately, my dear friends. There is much upheaval, excitement, momentum and sweet moments. For a peek into my poly as well as extended life, here are some highlights: My live-in boyfriend and I threw my husband a birthday party at our…

Featured Again on “Threesomes and Variations”

I am honored that last week’s blog post, Negotiations and Finding Your Core Values was recently highlighted again as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated more great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for…

Featured Article on “Threesomes and Variations”

I am honored that last week’s blog post, Polyamory Without Rules = Chaos? was recently highlighted as a featured article on the informative and interesting blog Threesomes and Variations. This article initiated some great conversations and shared insights on the subject of navigating boundaries and negotiations in polyamorous relationships (or any relationship for that matter).…

Compersion, Metamours and Other Keys To Poly Love

Cheers Sexy People! Do you think that you could handle someone that you are romantically involved with (lover, partner, spouse) going out on an overnite date with his ex-girlfriend? How about if the date was an all weekend excursion or vacation, with adorable pictures of them together showing up on Facebook? Would you want to…