007 Double Agent – Back in the Poly Closet

Cheers Sexy People! I am happily writing you from London where the hubs and I are traveling, having a 1.5 week leisurely trip (OK, some business too, but not much) visiting friends and family. We are having a splendidly AWESOME time. We just landed here last night from Edinburgh, Scotland where we spent five days.…

Do My Partners Have Partners? + BONUS: Myths and Facts

Cheers Sexy People! Recently, a dear friend of mine whom I met through this blog, asked me if my partners have partners themselves. I have written about my partners’ partners (otherwise known as “metamours” in the poly community) in many posts over the last two years. However, since an avid reader of my blog was…

“I Can Relate To That” Radio Show 007 Debriefing

Cheers Sexy People! Well, THAT was an adventure! I am writing you the day after being a guest speaker on my very first Internet radio show. Wow! Such a wonderful experience! I really enjoyed having the opportunity to be heard, share my story, offer a different point of view and be a contributor on a…

Adventures At My First Poly Conference

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you from the “other side” of giving my first presentation at my first polyamorous conference. What a ride that was! WOW! SOOO glad that I did it! There were moments full of fear where I thought, “What am I, crazy? Who gives me the right to speak publicly about…

Husband vs. Boyfriend vs. Poly Relationships

Cheers Sexy People! Hello all! Recently, the below comment came in from my last blog post: I have been following you for quite a while and while your posts are inspirational, many times I am left utterly confused. You speak of your ups and downs with your BF more you do with your husband. Does…

Deadly Possession and Shattering Innocence

Cheers Sexy People, I’m writing this post with a heavy heart. While I was having a “date night” with my boyfriend last night, frolicking all over our local area enjoying the holidays, and then we were getting ready to settle in for the evening for a fun, sexy night at home, I got confirmation that…