Acceptance of Polyamory Today: OKCupid Dating Adventures

Cheers Sexy People! The time has finally come… after performing post-breakup soul searching, doing MORE research on why people cheat, enjoying some quality time with my amazing husband as well as lots of ME time to make sure my self-esteem is intact, I have ventured back out into the dating world. Not just any dating…

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Monogamy Under the Microscope: CNN, Time, and the Ashley Madison Hack

Hello Polyworld! I’m JJ, Kitty’s husband. I’m oft-mentioned but rarely seen in the wild, kind of like Big Foot, or the Incredible Hulk (though sadly without all the bulgy muscles. On the other hand, I don’t have the green complexion either, so let’s call it a wash.)   Up to now I’ve mostly hung out…

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Holy Shit – I’m an EMPATH! … How Polyamory and Grief Can Play in the Same Sandbox

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote about how I was devastated and deeply saddened by losing a dear friend, colleague and mentor in a tragic accident while he was about to reach the summit of the tallest mountain in Africa – an achievement he always wanted. It just completely broke my heart to see this incredible…

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Podcast Interview: Louisa Leontiades, Author of The Husband Swap

Cheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here with my friend Louisa Leontiades, author of The “Husband Swap: A True Story of Unconventional Love” and “Lessons in Love and Life to my Younger Self (a companion guide to The Husband Swap)”. She’s also a contributor to Huffington Post, Salon, Nerve, Jezebel and the Guardian. Louisa contacted me…

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The Power of Community in Times of Grief – Losing Loved Ones Who Accept Us

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you with a heavy heart today after learning about a tragic loss yesterday that I am deeply deeply saddened by. A good friend of mine, a friend that also became a colleague of mine as well as a supporter of my endeavors here at Loving Without Boundaries died suddenly in a natural…

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Breakup Recovery and How to Spot an Emotional Grown-up

Cheers Sexy People, It has been about six weeks since the big breakup. And surprisingly, even to myself, I am doing quite well. Don’t get me wrong – any big loss still hurts big-time. And losing an almost five-year relationship and someone that lived in and shared your home is a big shift in anyone’s reality. But…

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Podcast Interview: Saul of Hearts + New and Noteworthy Announcement!

Cheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here with a new friend of mine, Saul from the website and blog, Saul of Hearts. When I started my polyamorous journey, I did quite a bit of research and tried to find other like-minded people. It was during this time that I found Saul’s website which spoke…

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The A, B, C’s of Addiction – Is Someone in your Polycule Affected?

Cheers Sexy People! It is with great excitement that I am introducing the first guest blog post from my very good friend. I have interviewed her here before for our humble little blog – an interview that has been on my top ten list of favorite posts of all time since its inception. You go, girl!…

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BOUNDARIES: Don’t Excuse Bad Behavior, No Matter What the “Label”

Cheers Sexy People! In response to my last post about my upsetting breakup that I am healing from, I had a great conversation with one of our frequent commenters here at Loving Without Boundaries, Clarathegreat. It turns out that she works in the mental health profession. I am passionate about mental health for many reasons, including trying to…

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Bullshit Alert: “Polyamory” is NOT a cover for Sex Addiction and other issues

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you on the other side of a devastating, horrific breakup of both one of my relationships and my poly family as I had come to know it. Just weeks shy of celebrating our fifth anniversary, my boyfriend and I have broken up and he has moved out of our…

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