The Modern Family: Love, Loyalty and Laughter

Cheers Sexy People! Ahhhhhhh, the holidays… a time for running around like a completely insane person all while trying not to hit squirrels as they cross the street, having and making lists (presents, groceries, people to NOT see over the holidays, parties to attend, parties to avoid, etc), and visiting… FAMILY. I’ve been thinking alot…

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Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a mother and educator in San Antonio, TX

This is the sixth in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This sixth interview is of…

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Poly Married VS. Poly Single as it Relates to Security & Jealousy

Cheers Sexy People! I want to dedicate this blog post to a question that I received from one of my readers in Australia. Here is her question to me: Q: Do you feel as though your “status” as a married person gives you a greater stability from which to explore polyamory? I am single, and…

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Polyamory (vs. Promiscuity), STDs and Safer Sex

Cheers Sexy People! So, let’s talk about sex, my poly and poly-curious peeps. I’ve noticed that sometimes people assume that if you identify as polyamorous, many assume that also means that you are promiscuous. CAN that be possible? Well, sure, but it is not always the case. There are as many ways to “do” polyamory…

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Don’t Dream It, Be It – When Three Isn’t A Crowd

Cheers Sexy People, “Don’t Dream It, Be It” is a quote I personally love from one of my favorite cult classic movies, The Rocky Horror Picture Show. I was an impressionable 16 years old the first time that I saw it at the Theatre of the Living Arts (TLA) movie theatre on South Street in…

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Can Polyamory Save A Relationship (and Other Conundrums)?

Cheers Sexy People! How do we stay true to ourselves while staying true to our loved ones? How HONEST about who we are do we want to be, even to ourselves? When do we start to build resentment for hiding our true nature, stuffing our feelings down or denying ourselves pleasure? How often do we…

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A “Poly-ish” Wedding, Taboos and Another “Coming Out” Party

Cheers Sexy People, Three important and epic things happened since we last spoke, readers – two directly related to the poly world, one related to decreasing stigmas about “taboo” topics that typical, everyday mainstream society would prefer not to talk about: My husband and I attended the infertility documentary in NYC to help lessen the…

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My Poly Life with my Poly Husband (Or Live A Life Less Ordinary With Me)

Cheers Sexy People! I hate to be bored. So does my husband. We are both Geminis (the sign of the twins), and my friend described us when we were engaged with: The four of you must swing from the same chandelier. Well said! When we got married, we put the song “Live A Life Less…

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