Nonviolent Communication and a “Coming Out” Story

Cheers Sexy People! I have been waiting for the right moment to share what I have learned about the concept and teachings of Nonviolent Communication as described by Marshall Rosenberg. Given how my last two weeks have been, now is the time, my dear friends. This is really powerful stuff, and it’s another bit of…

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Emotional Strength and Polyamory Go Together Like…

Cheers Sexy People! Even though I write this blog doling out any insights I find, and do oodles of research on polyamory / ethical non-monogamy, communication, relationships, etc, sometimes I fuck up anyway. I view trying to live an ethically non-monogamous life, juggling more than one relationship, and doing my best to live a purposeful,…

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Compersion, Metamours and Other Keys To Poly Love

Cheers Sexy People! Do you think that you could handle someone that you are romantically involved with (lover, partner, spouse) going out on an overnite date with his ex-girlfriend? How about if the date was an all weekend excursion or vacation, with adorable pictures of them together showing up on Facebook? Would you want to…

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Breaking Up Is Hard To Do (even when poly)

Cheers Sexy People! Ahhh relationship breakups… they can be truly horrible, sad and even debilitating at times – yes even when we are involved in having multiple relationships at once as us polyamorous folk are wont to do. Last week marks a year since my former metamour broke up with my boyfriend. The moment I…

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First Step In A Poly Life, Feeling Brave and Glorious LOVE

Cheers Sexy People! I have been thinking quite a bit lately about courage, finding our true selves, being authentic, facing challenges, and it is all very relevant to me in the decision / inclination to be polyamorous or not. Deciding to live an ethically non-monogamous life on purpose and out loud takes a load of…

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Over 500 Followers! Over 10,000 Views! Thank you, Everyone!

Cheers Sexy People! I wanted to take a moment to THANK YOU! As of this week, I have reached over 500 subscribers, and have had over 10,000 views on this humble blog…. in under a year! I can’t thank you enough for your support, encouragement, comments and inspiration. It has been an interesting and educational…

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Face Your Fear: The Results Might Just Be Amazing

Cheers Sexy People! What are some of your biggest fears? We all have them. “Fears are like annoying relatives. You can’t avoid them forever and ignoring them won’t make them go away…” Are you afraid of feelings of jealousy or insecurity if you open up your relationship? Are you afraid of losing your lover if…

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Special VD Post: What Does An Open Marriage LOOK Like?

Cheers Sexy People, I am sometimes asked by friends in real life or cyber acquaintances: How does your open marriage work? Or recently, my good friend (who knows about my polyamorous household / situation) asked: So how does Valentine’s Day work in your world? Will we see a “VD” special (post) marking the occasion? Sure,…

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Sexual Libidos Don't Match Up: YIKES! IS IT OVER?

Cheers Sexy People! As you know, I talk to alot of people through social media and my blog. Recently, I was talking to a 37-year-old man who is in a monogamous relationship. But he was on a sexy social media site (FetLife) lurking around, considering cheating on his girlfriend. Why? Here’s what he has to…

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