Over 500 Followers! Over 10,000 Views! Thank you, Everyone!

Cheers Sexy People! I wanted to take a moment to THANK YOU! As of this week, I have reached over 500 subscribers, and have had over 10,000 views on this humble blog…. in under a year! I can’t thank you enough for your support, encouragement, comments and inspiration. It has been an interesting and educational…

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Face Your Fear: The Results Might Just Be Amazing

Cheers Sexy People! What are some of your biggest fears? We all have them. “Fears are like annoying relatives. You can’t avoid them forever and ignoring them won’t make them go away…” Are you afraid of feelings of jealousy or insecurity if you open up your relationship? Are you afraid of losing your lover if…

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Special VD Post: What Does An Open Marriage LOOK Like?

Cheers Sexy People, I am sometimes asked by friends in real life or cyber acquaintances: How does your open marriage work? Or recently, my good friend (who knows about my polyamorous household / situation) asked: So how does Valentine’s Day work in your world? Will we see a “VD” special (post) marking the occasion? Sure,…

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Sexual Libidos Don't Match Up: YIKES! IS IT OVER?

Cheers Sexy People! As you know, I talk to alot of people through social media and my blog. Recently, I was talking to a 37-year-old man who is in a monogamous relationship. But he was on a sexy social media site (FetLife) lurking around, considering cheating on his girlfriend. Why? Here’s what he has to…

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How To Tips: Improve Your Mood = Improve Your Relationships

Cheers Sexy People, Some thoughts for the day: Decide once and for all that your mood, your sense of balance and well-being are your responsibility. Decide that you are precious to yourself and that you are in charge of treating yourself well. BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND. Decide that you love and honor yourself and repeat this [decision] as…

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Sex, Lies and Hypocrisy: It’s What’s On the Menu

Cheers Sexy People! A funny thing happened to me on my way home from pole fitness class. An old friend was in town, a friend that I used to have a crush on at different periods of my life, including my former life as a serial monogamist. We had never gotten together in the past…

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Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a married male blogger

This is seventh in a series of interviews of everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This seventh interview is of a…

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Breaking The Silence on Monogamy – A New Documentary Explores Whether We Are Wired for Fidelity

Cheers Sexy People! Why is the divorce rate so incredibly high? (roughly 50% of married couples in America end in divorce as per www.divorcerate.org) Is monogamy necessary for a healthy relationship in today’s society… or is honesty, to your partner and to yourself possibly just as healthy? Why does infidelity cause so much pain, heartache…

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Sleeping With An Ex… Is it Wrong? – Agreements and Boundaries in Poly

Cheers Sexy People! I received a very strong and thought provoking comment on yesterday’s blog post, When Poly Rubber Hits the Bumpy Road. I always most certainly appreciate and welcome feedback on my blog posts, so thank you, dear reader! It’s so great to keep the conversation going and build this community. I thought it…

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