“Stories From The Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families” – A Book Review

Cheers Sexy People! It is with great pleasure that I share this post with you: a discussion and overview on the latest book from Thorntree Press – “Stories from the Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families”. Let me start by saying that I am an incredibly lucky girl indeed as I had the privilege of being…

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Rethinking Infidelity: a talk for anyone who has ever loved

Cheers Sexy People! Recently a member of our awesome Loving Without Boundaries community shared with me this incredible TedTalk by Esther Perel – a relationship therapist – that answers very eloquently the question “Why do happy people cheat?” Wow. It is incredible. Totally worth the 21 minutes that it requires to watch it in full. I will…

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Beyond The Love Conference and Musings On My Poly Journey

Cheers Sexy People! It is with great excitement that I share that I will be at this year’s Beyond the Love conference November 13–15 in Columbus, Ohio. I have been granted a “press pass” to come enjoy the event, take part in the activities, and then report on the experience afterwards here at Loving Without…

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Podcast Interview: Rebecca Ritter, Friend of Kitty Chambliss

Cheers Sexy People! The latest podcast episode is live – an interview with Rebecca Ritter, close friend of Kitty Chambliss who introduced Kitty to the book “The Ethical Slut.” That magnificent book sent this Kitty down the trajectory of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory with joy in her heart and loving sensuality in her soul! Thank you,…

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Acceptance of Polyamory Today: OKCupid Dating Adventures

Cheers Sexy People! The time has finally come… after performing post-breakup soul searching, doing MORE research on why people cheat, enjoying some quality time with my amazing husband as well as lots of ME time to make sure my self-esteem is intact, I have ventured back out into the dating world. Not just any dating…

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Monogamy Under the Microscope: CNN, Time, and the Ashley Madison Hack

Hello Polyworld! I’m JJ, Kitty’s husband. I’m oft-mentioned but rarely seen in the wild, kind of like Big Foot, or the Incredible Hulk (though sadly without all the bulgy muscles. On the other hand, I don’t have the green complexion either, so let’s call it a wash.)   Up to now I’ve mostly hung out…

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Holy Shit – I’m an EMPATH! … How Polyamory and Grief Can Play in the Same Sandbox

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I wrote about how I was devastated and deeply saddened by losing a dear friend, colleague and mentor in a tragic accident while he was about to reach the summit of the tallest mountain in Africa – an achievement he always wanted. It just completely broke my heart to see this incredible…

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Podcast Interview: Louisa Leontiades, Author of The Husband Swap

Cheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here with my friend Louisa Leontiades, author of The “Husband Swap: A True Story of Unconventional Love” and “Lessons in Love and Life to my Younger Self (a companion guide to The Husband Swap)”. She’s also a contributor to Huffington Post, Salon, Nerve, Jezebel and the Guardian. Louisa contacted me…

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The Power of Community in Times of Grief – Losing Loved Ones Who Accept Us

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you with a heavy heart today after learning about a tragic loss yesterday that I am deeply deeply saddened by. A good friend of mine, a friend that also became a colleague of mine as well as a supporter of my endeavors here at Loving Without Boundaries died suddenly in a natural…

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Breakup Recovery and How to Spot an Emotional Grown-up

Cheers Sexy People, It has been about six weeks since the big breakup. And surprisingly, even to myself, I am doing quite well. Don’t get me wrong – any big loss still hurts big-time. And losing an almost five-year relationship and someone that lived in and shared your home is a big shift in anyone’s reality. But…

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