Polyamory (vs. Promiscuity), STDs and Safer Sex

Cheers Sexy People! So, let’s talk about sex, my poly and poly-curious peeps. I’ve noticed that sometimes people assume that if you identify as polyamorous, many assume that also means that you are promiscuous. CAN that be possible? Well, sure, but it is not always the case. There are as many ways to “do” polyamory…

Don’t Dream It, Be It – When Three Isn’t A Crowd

Cheers Sexy People, “Don’t Dream It, Be It” is a quote I personally love from one of my favorite cult classic movies, The Rocky Horror Picture Show. I was an impressionable 16 years old the first time that I saw it at the Theatre of the Living Arts (TLA) movie theatre on South Street in…

Can Polyamory Save A Relationship (and Other Conundrums)?

Cheers Sexy People! How do we stay true to ourselves while staying true to our loved ones? How HONEST about who we are do we want to be, even to ourselves? When do we start to build resentment for hiding our true nature, stuffing our feelings down or denying ourselves pleasure? How often do we…

A “Poly-ish” Wedding, Taboos and Another “Coming Out” Party

Cheers Sexy People, Three important and epic things happened since we last spoke, readers – two directly related to the poly world, one related to decreasing stigmas about “taboo” topics that typical, everyday mainstream society would prefer not to talk about: My husband and I attended the infertility documentary in NYC to help lessen the…

My Poly Life with my Poly Husband (Or Live A Life Less Ordinary With Me)

Cheers Sexy People! I hate to be bored. So does my husband. We are both Geminis (the sign of the twins), and my friend described us when we were engaged with: The four of you must swing from the same chandelier. Well said! When we got married, we put the song “Live A Life Less…

Polyamory, Discrimination and The Aftermath of “Coming Out”

Cheers Sexy People! I have two questions for you to ponder, and as always, I welcome your thoughts on both: 1) If someone takes the time to confide in you that they are living a non-traditional, alternative lifestyle (such as bi, gay, polyamorous, etc), do you focus on the fact that they trusted you enough…

Non-Primary Partners: How To Treat Us Well (and Fun with Greeting Cards)

Cheers Sexy People! Three years ago today, my beloved husband dropped me off for a date with another man… Then he picked me up at the end of the date… …Yeah, that’s right. Does that sound weird to you? It almost did to us too, but we decided to give this polyamory stuff a try……

I Should Be His One and Only – Is That True?

Cheers Sexy People, I recently wrote a blog post here referencing the book I Need Your Love: Is That True, which is an amazingly fabulous book by Byron Katie. Her teachings can change your life and your overall happiness if you let it. Definitely worth checking out. I wanted to eventually show you her work…