7 Bottoms, 1 Gay Wedding and 1 Poly Anniversary

Cheers Sexy People! I have MUCH to tell you! It has been an exciting, busy and fun-filled couple of weeks. I am writing you from Provincetown, MA where I attended and participated in my first gay wedding. And wow, what a magical, fun and thought-provoking weekend it was. The wedding was for a friend of…

Can Mono / Poly Relationships Work Without Pain?

Cheers Sexy Peeps! A comment just came in from a recent popular blog post of mine Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married? The comment is filled with pain and the commenter is seeking answers. I was about to write a reply in the comment section, but realized that the best way to serve this hurting individual…

Keep Yo Hands To Yo’Self!

Cheers Sexy People! I’ve missed you! Thanks for your patience. Today is day three of my newfound freedom being my own boss, being more and more authentic every single day, taking this life and ROCKING it! I love my life and I love writing to all of you! Writing this blog makes me happy, and…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a pole dancing grandmother in her 50s

This is ninth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This ninth interview is with a close female friend…

Why Do Polyamorous People Get Married?

Cheers Sexy People! I am a proud, polyamorous woman, but I have several times been asked: Why be married if you are in several relationships, possible acting as a free agent anyway? What’s the point of the marriage? Why bother? The first time I was asked this, I admit I bristled and wanted to get…

Emotion Management and Love, Sweet Love!

Cheers Sexy People! Well, it’s been a helluva week! Lots of ups and downs and revelations. I’ve been thinking alot lately about emotion management and release, being authentic, and how love truly makes the world go round. Have you ever had moments where you feel like you are being replaced? It brings up feelings of…