Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a female polyamorous blogger and author

This is tenth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This tenth interview is with a female blogger…

Mastering The 5 Love Languages

Cheers Sexy People, Have you ever been speaking to a loved one and just felt like you weren’t on the same page? Does it frustrate you? Did it not used to be like that? Do you sometimes feel super connected with someone sometimes, but other times not at all? Is that confusing to you? After…

Another “Coming Out” and Communication Rituals

Cheers, Sexy People, This upcoming weekend is my boyfriend’s birthday. And I am getting so very excited planning special, awesome, hopefully jaw-dropping activities to help celebrate another year that my other love is present on our spinning blue earth. Though I would love to tell you what I’m preparing, I don’t want any spoilers here…

Poly Family Reunion (of sorts) In The Big Apple

Cheers Sexy People! Sometimes friendship, hope and camaraderie comes from the most unlikely and potentially faraway places. This past weekend was for me a wonderful celebration of such things. I had the opportunity to meet a close, online polyamorous-practicing friend of mine when our paths were able to cross in New York City. How divine!…

We Said “I Love You” – Now What?

Cheers Sexy People, Recently, a reader whom I’ve spoken to in the past asked for some advice. I thought I would share her situation here, my response, and put it out here on my blog in case anyone else has any wise words of advice from the polyamory trenches. Situation: She (whom I’ll refer to…

Great Poly Relationships: Staying Cool When Tensions Are High

Cheers Sexy People! It’s great to connect with you again here. I have had a busy, exciting and fun-filled few weeks! As usual, I have had my share of ups and downs recently. My boyfriend and I were gearing up for our annual Rocky Horror Picture Show inspired rock gig that we do every year with…