007 Double Agent – Back in the Poly Closet

Cheers Sexy People! I am happily writing you from London where the hubs and I are traveling, having a 1.5 week leisurely trip (OK, some business too, but not much) visiting friends and family. We are having a splendidly AWESOME time. We just landed here last night from Edinburgh, Scotland where we spent five days.…

Relationship Anarchy, Co-Dependency and Loving

Cheers Sexy People! My last post about forgiveness and moving forward after infidelity got some lively conversations going, both here in the comments section and in Facebook forums as well. I received the following comment from a Facebook friend: You talk a lot about trust – the question is, trust that your partner will do what? Do what s/he wants…

I Forgave Him – But Now What? (Damage Control After Infidelity)

Cheers Sexy People! I felt a massive weight had been lifted off of my shoulders after I recently truly forgave my boyfriend for his indiscretions that I talked about in this post. We had a really powerful conversation – not only about forgiveness, but ways in which I wanted to take ownership of being a great, attentive…

Can Love Truly Conquer All? (Forgive, But Don’t Forget)

Cheers Sexy People! This past weekend, I attended what for me was a transformational event. I attended my first Landmark Forum. I don’t know how many of our awesome peeps in our community have checked this “dive into the deep end of the pool” seminar out (and I’d love to hear from you to get your…

Broken Trust – Can You Survive An Affair?

Cheers Sexy People! Soooo I’m ready to talk about something here on my ethical non-monogamy blog. As you may have guessed from recent posts… I got cheated on. Yes, that’s right – after I’ve been writing this blog for over two years now, digging deeper into my commitment to polyamory, trust, integrity, honesty, transparency, blah,…

“Choosing Your Relationships” by Louisa Leontiades

This week, I am honored to feature a guest blog post from a good friend of mine that I met through this blog here at Loving Without Boundaries. Her name is Louisa Leontiades and I have interviewed her in the past here. Louisa is a blogger and author that lives in Sweden. She is the mother of two small children,…

Do My Partners Have Partners? + BONUS: Myths and Facts

Cheers Sexy People! Recently, a dear friend of mine whom I met through this blog, asked me if my partners have partners themselves. I have written about my partners’ partners (otherwise known as “metamours” in the poly community) in many posts over the last two years. However, since an avid reader of my blog was…