Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a female musician in a triad

This is twelfth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This twelfth interview is with a female musician in her mid-30s…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a married female blogger

This is eleventh in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This eleventh interview is with a female friend,…

It’s My Party and She’ll Cry If She Wants To (“Coming Out Story”)

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I regaled you with stories of my worst coming out ever. Upon being “out”d” at a party that I was throwing for my husband, my newer friend felt very out of sorts and proceeded to get rather upset and fled the party! It was a bit of a clusterfuck. I…

Worst “Coming Out” and a Book Review (Lessons in Love and Life…)

Cheers Sexy People! I have missed you and am happy to be sharing with you again here. Unfortunately, what I have to share starts with telling you that I just had the worst “coming out” experience of my life. It is frustrating that even with all of my research, pondering, preparation and work that I do to try…

007 Double Agent – Back in the Poly Closet

Cheers Sexy People! I am happily writing you from London where the hubs and I are traveling, having a 1.5 week leisurely trip (OK, some business too, but not much) visiting friends and family. We are having a splendidly AWESOME time. We just landed here last night from Edinburgh, Scotland where we spent five days.…

Relationship Anarchy, Co-Dependency and Loving

Cheers Sexy People! My last post about forgiveness and moving forward after infidelity got some lively conversations going, both here in the comments section and in Facebook forums as well. I received the following comment from a Facebook friend: You talk a lot about trust – the question is, trust that your partner will do what? Do what s/he wants…

I Forgave Him – But Now What? (Damage Control After Infidelity)

Cheers Sexy People! I felt a massive weight had been lifted off of my shoulders after I recently truly forgave my boyfriend for his indiscretions that I talked about in this post. We had a really powerful conversation – not only about forgiveness, but ways in which I wanted to take ownership of being a great, attentive…