BOUNDARIES: Don’t Excuse Bad Behavior, No Matter What the “Label”

Cheers Sexy People! In response to my last post about my upsetting breakup that I am healing from, I had a great conversation with one of our frequent commenters here at Loving Without Boundaries, Clarathegreat. It turns out that she works in the mental health profession. I am passionate about mental health for many reasons, including trying to…

Bullshit Alert: “Polyamory” is NOT a cover for Sex Addiction and other issues

Cheers Sexy People! I am writing you on the other side of a devastating, horrific breakup of both one of my relationships and my poly family as I had come to know it. Just weeks shy of celebrating our fifth anniversary, my boyfriend and I have broken up and he has moved out of our…

Podcast: Rick Clemons Interview – Coming Out Coach

Cheers Sexy People! The latest podcast interview is here! And it’s an awesome one! I had the pleasure of meeting Rick Clemons at a conference I recently attended in Portland, OR. Rick’s speciality is as a Coming Out Coach for polyamorous, homosexual, bisexual, transgender, queer folk – you name it! We immediately struck up the most…

“The Game Changer” Book Review Is Here!

Cheers Sexy People! I am so happy to share with you my review of Franklin Veaux’s book: The Game Changer: A Memoir of Disruptive Love, distributed through Thorntree Press where Franklin is a co-founder. I had absolutely no expectations before reading this book. I didn’t know anything about Franklin’s personal life or history. I knew…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a female musician in a triad

This is twelfth in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This twelfth interview is with a female musician in her mid-30s…

Poly Interview: Ethical non-monogamy from a married female blogger

This is eleventh in a series of interviews with everyday people who are living a poly lifestyle (either polyamorous or polysexual), from their individual perspectives. They were each given a series of questions, and asked to pick several questions that they would like to answer from their personal experience. This eleventh interview is with a female friend,…

It’s My Party and She’ll Cry If She Wants To (“Coming Out Story”)

Cheers Sexy People! Last week, I regaled you with stories of my worst coming out ever. Upon being “out”d” at a party that I was throwing for my husband, my newer friend felt very out of sorts and proceeded to get rather upset and fled the party! It was a bit of a clusterfuck. I…

Worst “Coming Out” and a Book Review (Lessons in Love and Life…)

Cheers Sexy People! I have missed you and am happy to be sharing with you again here. Unfortunately, what I have to share starts with telling you that I just had the worst “coming out” experience of my life. It is frustrating that even with all of my research, pondering, preparation and work that I do to try…